My family ✨️🤍
to understand the importance of this photo, you would to have known us for the past seven years.
this is my family, not by blood but by love.
my husband and his ex-wife talking to their son and their daughter (via phone).
who am I? im the calm. im the peace. im the unwavering support for not only my husband and his children but also for their mom. im not a traditional mom in this picture. in this picture, I am the support. im the support for a mother and father waiting for answers. I am the support when mom and dad need a quick break. I am chele. I was the chosen by my husband to love not only him but his children unconditionally. I was accepted by mom to be the mom when she cant be there. I am trusted by two parents to care for their most precious things in life.
EVERY situation is different. I understand the difficulties that come with mom, step mom, wife and ex-wife. I am both a wife and ex-wife, I am both mom and step mom. our situation wasn't much different, it was hard, toxic, and just exhausting, but today, its beautiful. love your husbands ex-wife. respect her. give her time and grace. it'll never be perfect, and it doesnt have to be. allow her to learn who you are, allow her to see you and the love you have for her greatest treasures in life. and if she never does accept you, never stop loving the children you help raise. never give up. if you cannot love your "step children" as your own, if you cannot respect their mother, you have NO business with a man who has children. whether you choose to believe it not, that woman is his family, your family.







































































