Lemon8Lifestyle community

Send To

Line

Facebook

WhatsApp

Twitter

Copy link

Get the full app experience

Discover more posts, hashtags, and features on the app.

Open Lemon8

Open Lemon8

Open Lemon8

Not now

Not now

Not now

Category
App version

Help

US
US
日本
ไทย
Indonesia
Việt Nam
Malaysia
Singapore
Australia
Canada
New Zealand
UK

Official website Privacy Policy Terms of Service Cookies Policy

An ADHD brain is not broken 💕

An ADHD brain is not broken. It is not a disease to be cured. It is not a character flaw. It is not a moral failing. And it is not something that needs fixing. An ADHD brain is simply a brain that is wired differently. The world was largely designed by and for neurotypical people, so ma

0 likes

ADHD time blindness in dating 💕

One of the ways ADHD can quietly affect dating is through time blindness. What starts as: ☕ “just a quick coffee” suddenly turns into: ✨ an entire evening together ✨ cancelling your plans ✨ staying up texting until 3am ✨ emotionally revolving around the connection ✨ abandoning your routin

0 likes

Hyper vigilance in relationships 💕

Do you ever feel like your brain is constantly scanning relationships for signs that something is about to go wrong? Over analysing texts. Noticing tiny shifts in tone. Feeling anxious when communication changes. Preparing yourself emotionally for rejection before it even happens. Many wom

0 likes

Trusting your intuition as a woman with ADHD 💕

Have you ever had a moment in dating where you genuinely could not tell whether something was: 💕 your intuition 💕 anxiety 💕 fear of rejection 💕 hypervigilance 💕 trauma 💕 overthinking 💕 or your ADHD brain spiralling? This is something so many women with ADHD quietly struggle with. Becau

0 likes

Why women with ADHD often become people pleasers 💕

Have you ever found yourself saying yes when you actually wanted to say no? 💭 Maybe you: 💕 ignore your own needs 💕 tolerate behaviour that hurts you 💕 struggle to speak up 💕 overexplain boundaries 💕 avoid conflict at all costs 💕 feel guilty for disappointing people 💕 try to be the “easygo

0 likes

Paralysis after dating disappointment in ADHD 💕

Have you ever had a dating experience disappoint you so deeply that your whole nervous system just… shuts down? 💔 You stop replying to messages. Stop checking the apps. Stop wanting to socialise. Stop taking care of yourself properly. Sometimes even basic tasks suddenly feel exhausting. T

0 likes

Never miss a dating red flag ever again 🚩

Have you ever looked back at a relationship or situationship and realised the red flags were there from the beginning… but your feelings were already too involved to fully see them clearly? 💭 This is something many women with ADHD experience and it is often far deeper than simply “being naive.”

0 likes

Why many of us ADHD women fall into fantasy relationships 💕

Ladies, has this ever happened to you? You meet someone new… and before the relationship has even had time to fully develop, your brain has already created: 🧠 future conversations 🧠 future holidays 🧠 future memories 🧠 future relationship scenarios 🧠 and an entire emotional attachment to th

0 likes

Why waiting for a text can feel physically painful 💕

You know how ADHD women can accidentally forget to reply to people for days… …but the moment they start liking someone new, suddenly every notification feels emotionally consuming? 😭💕 Checking your phone constantly. Re reading messages. Analysing tone changes. Wondering why they have not r

0 likes

ADHD and hyperfixation 🧠

Has it ever happened to you that you meet a man and suddenly… he’s all you can think about? 💭 You replay the conversations. Check your phone constantly. Analyse every message. Start imagining the future. And somehow your whole mood begins depending on whether he texts you or not. This hap

0 likes

ADHD women often confuse dopamine with compatibility. When a relationship feels intense, unpredictable, emotionally consuming, and full of highs and lows, the ADHD brain can interpret that stimulation as deep connection. But stimulation is not always compatibility. Hot and cold behaviour.

0 likes

Why Breadcrumbing Hits ADHD Women Harder 💕

Sometimes ADHD women are not addicted to the man. They are addicted to the inconsistency. And that is why breadcrumbing can feel so emotionally devastating. One text. One compliment. One late night message. One tiny bit of attention. And suddenly your nervous system lights up again wit

0 likes

One thing I see a LOT in ADHD women when dating is oversharing too quickly on fi

One thing I see a LOT in ADHD women when dating is oversharing too quickly on first dates. And honestly?I used to do this too. And before you shame yourself for this…please understand:this is often not about being “too much.” It can be connected to: 💕 impulsivity 💕 hyperfixation 💕 nervo

0 likes

One of the most heartbreaking things about getting diagnosed with ADHD later in

One of the most heartbreaking things about getting diagnosed with ADHD later in life is suddenly realising… 🌊 You were not “too sensitive.” 🌊 You were not “crazy.” 🌊 You were not “dramatic.” 🌊 You were not “weak.” 🌊 And you were never intentionally trying to make life harder for yourself.

0 likes

Single ADHD Ladies

I would like to invite you to join my new Dating with ADHD Facebook support group for women. Please join me 💕 https://www.facebook.com/groups/1493954468806400 #adhd #adhdinwomen #datingwithadhd #adhdrelationships

0 likes

The patriarchy taught women to be chosen.

The patriarchy taught women to be chosen. And that is exactly how the “pick me” wound was created. Women were conditioned to: ✨ compete for male approval ✨ overgive to earn love ✨ tolerate inconsistency ✨ abandon themselves to keep a relationship ✨ centre men instead of themselves And man

0 likes

If you ever find yourself having to explain basic human decency to him…

If you ever find yourself having to explain basic human decency to him… Girl, stop 🛑 Step away from your phone and leave him on read 👀 We are not here to help men: ✨ find their moral compass ✨ teach them manners ✨ explain basic human decency ✨ convince them to care ✨ beg for empathy

0 likes

“Women with trauma often mistake relief for love.”

“Women with trauma often mistake relief for love.” Read that again. Because this is one of the biggest dating patterns I see in women with complex trauma, anxious attachment, emotional neglect wounds, or histories of emotionally inconsistent relationships. They do not always fall in love w

0 likes

Most women think they’re waiting for the right man

Most women think they’re waiting for the right man. They’re not. They’re still available for the wrong ones. Love is not about luck. And it is not about waiting. It is about how your behaviour, your standards, and your emotional patterns shape what you allow into your life. And wh

0 likes

Are you waiting for the right moment to find love?

Are you waiting for the right moment to find love? Love is not about waiting for the right moment. It’s about how you show up in the moments that matter. And right now, many of you are already doing something different. You are raising your standards. Your tolerance for inconsistency i

0 likes

See more

384Following

49Followers

2Likes and saves

Coach Penny Love 💕

coachpennylove

coachpennylove

coachpennylove.com

Cancel

Helping successful women to attract their soulmate 💕