Not pretty enough to love but to lust after ?

I’m tired of being everywhere and absolutely nowhere at the same time

One day this will all be worth it and everything I’ve worked and prayed for will finally come to me in abundant waves

im a lot like you girlies

Just wanna feel pretty and seen and it’s nice to know when people care the way I do

I’m not a democrat but I enjoy the the little elegant things that some men would never be caught dead doing or even thinking about because they are too manly

the only time women are interested in me is when they think I’m a homo 🫩.

Not even close.

However I guess… I’m whatever you think I am… whatever box you put me In with your first veil of judged gazes

I wanna hear your stories… you are meant to be heard

2025/5/30 Edited to

... Read moreIn a world where appearances often overshadow true character, many feel the weight of being judged solely on looks. It's common to want validation not just from romantic interests but from friends and peers too. Feeling beautiful and seen goes beyond superficial attraction. Many individuals challenge traditional gender norms, finding joy in hobbies deemed 'non-masculine.' This exploration of identity can lead to feeling misunderstood or objectified, as seen in the struggle of wanting genuine connection but grappling with societal expectations. It's essential to acknowledge these narratives: every story shared adds depth to understanding human relationships. Embracing individuality and sharing experiences can foster connections that are authentic and meaningful. Let's delve into the intricacies of emotions and the stories that shape us.

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