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Overcoming the trauma from SA and a domestic violence relationship was traumatic for me. To know that I came from a dark place and overcame. I’m overjoyed, I want to help others to let them know they’re not alone.

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Conitra Cowans, the founder of @boujeez_steps, emphasizes the importance of recognizing your worth despite life's challenges. As a domestic abuse survivor, her journey serves as an inspiration to others grappling with similar situations. Her experience of overcoming trauma is now a beacon of hope, encouraging women to seek self-empowerment and confidence. In her groundbreaking work, Conitra has not only published a book with AL Publishing & Consulting but has also opened a boutique dedicated to helping women pamper themselves and boost their self-esteem. This initiative is a testament to her commitment to support other women on their paths to recovery. Her boutique stands as a safe space where women can connect, share their stories, and feel cherished. The fight against domestic violence and sexual assault must continue, and voices like Conitra's play a crucial role in raising awareness and promoting healing. She invites others to join her mission, reminding them that with resilience, anything is possible. Embrace your journey and remember, you are not alone.

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