Literally so angry rn
I'm gonna tell what happened as shortly as possible. And I don't blame my dad, he grew up in a violent and abusive environment so it's not his fault he acts like this.
So basically, yesterday me and my two little sisters, and my dad we went on a walk around the neighborhood. My baby sister is on her scooter ahead of us by a few of those sidewalk squares. My dad is walking infront of me and my younger sister. As we're walking I feel like something is about to happen, and then I hear a Keychain behind us so I quickly turn around cause I already felt something bad was gonna happen. I see a man and his big dog at the corner of the street walking fairly fast but I'm like it's okay my dad is hear. But I literally CANNOT shake that feeling off. After a bit my younger sister turns around to see too cause she feels bad too. The man is literally like only 4 sidewalk squares away. We both look at our dad and he doesn't notice. After a bit I start to feel that this man is too close now in personal space. Oh and BTW the whole STREET and SIDEWALK on BOTH side were EMPTY!!!! Why the fck was he so close!?? Anyways my senses the man too this time and he turns and sees him and says hi to the man. Idk but I think it was cause of that he didn't touch me or my younger sister. But then this man he speed up more he came right behind me and my younger sister and then came next to us and slowed down to our pace so me and my sister slow down so he's not like walking next to us and walking next to our dad instead. My dad and him say hello again and say how're you and shit and then thean walks ahead in INFRONT OF MY DAD!!!! The reason why this is so fcking disturbing is that he BLOCKED US FROM OUR 5 YEAR OLD BABY SISTER!!!! I look at my dad shocked. My younger sister also like oh no something bad is about to happen. I tell my dad "this isn't safe. Can you go to her?" My dad's like no its okay. I tell him again "no this is very dangerous!! She isn't safe!!" He again is like no nothing is wrong. Now let me tell you guys. My 6th sense has saved me AND my family so many times. Like I've been saving them since I was 12 the day me and my baby sister nearly got kidnapped and my 6th sense made me grab her and run before the guys could grab us. So like why the fck is he not listening to me??? So finally I'm desperate and I call out my baby sisters name loudly. She turns around and sees this man and his dog head to her. She gets extremely scared and nearly runs onto the road to get away. I speed up and she runs to me. Now obviously I know this is extremely disrespectful and wrong but I couldn't stop yelling at my dad cause that man was wrong in the head and we all could tell except him. He kept defending himself saying he'd fight the man I KEPT TELLING HIM IF HIS DAUGHTERS FEEL UNSAFE HE SHOULD FCKING DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!!!! I'm A 50 yEaR oLd MaN i KnOw ThIs WoRlD bEtTeR tHaN yOu. That's the shit he tells me. Well did you know that most victims of this shit are kids up till early 20s!?? And you're supposed to stop the fcking problem before it can even happen. And I don't like to make everything about religion, but even Islamicly speaking, he FAILED his job as a father!!! He fcking FAILED!!! Islamicly speaking as a mahram man he was supposed to protect us and make sure we're safe and not in danger, he was supposed to listen to me and bring my baby sister back to me before anything bad could happen. And islamicly speaking it IS a sin to yell at your parents and yes I feel bad about that but what would anyone else in my situation do as an older sister???? When I got home I told my mom what happened and she agreed with me. And of course so did my younger sister. And when my dad came to try and explain he said a whole bunch of shit that even my mom and sister was like what the actual fck!?? And so I started arguing. And usually my mom she stops me and yells at me for disrespecting him but she didn't even stop me yesterday. And I didn't realize how much it all actually hurt until at night while I was brushing my teeth I suddenly started sobbing. And even now while writing this I just keep crying cause it hurt. Why does he trust some random old white man more than he trusts my words?? His own daughters words. And he still believes he did nothing wrong. Like I don't know. I don't hate him but I'm so angry right now.
Feeling safe while out with family should never be a concern, yet numerous individuals, especially women and children, face unsettling situations daily. Awareness and preparedness are crucial in these instances. Parents play a vital role in safeguarding their children, often relying on intuition and fostering open communication. Trusting one's instincts is paramount, as it can prevent potential threats. Modern discussions on safety also emphasize the importance of understanding and respecting personal space and recognizing red flags. The ongoing struggle of young individuals seeking protection serves as a call to action for society to prioritize awareness and education about personal safety. Engaging in conversations about safety within families can strengthen trust, ensuring that everyone feels heard and respected. Sharing stories, like mine, not only provides a sense of solidarity but can also encourage proactive measures in our communities. Ultimately, we can create safer neighborhoods by fostering relationships based on understanding, trust, and awareness.
My dad was abusive and shitty in general, he let his friend get away with it while in the same room, I was 4…