I am Not a Superwoman!

Starting full-on Mumsy duties soon, one lady show!

From next month, Daddy won’t be around much, so it’s all on me. Morning rush to get Little Bae ready for school, then join the “jamming” from East to West for work, and back again in the evening to pick her up. And you know what’s funny? When Daddy is home, she insists on eating out… but when it’s just Mumsy, it’s straight home for dinner and I become the chef! 😂

After Mumsy duties are done and Little Bae settles with her schoolwork, it’s time for Mumsy Plan B, my own working time. Reviewing ad with my mentor, chatting with prospects and mentees, then finally winding down for the night.

People often ask me, 为什么要做到这样辛苦呢? The truth is, I’m not a superwoman. I just have an aim and a goal I’m working towards. To get there, I need patience, consistency, and the right guidance from my mentor so I don’t feel lost.

It really takes two hands to clap. If you’ve been waiting for a little nudge to start, maybe this is it. I’ll be here, walking alongside you.

Comment Superwoman or Superman to know my Plan B. 😂

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2025/9/23 Edited to

... Read moreTaking on full mumsy responsibilities has taught me valuable lessons about time management and resilience. When dad’s away, the entire morning rush falls onto me—getting Little Bae ready for school and then diving straight into work commitments across different locations. It’s exhausting but rewarding. One thing I’ve realized is the importance of having a clear goal. I’m not a superwoman, just a determined mum balancing multiple roles with patience and consistency. Without the right mentor guiding me, navigating this hectic life would’ve been overwhelming. Meal times also become a small yet meaningful way to maintain structure—while Daddy’s around, we tend to eat out, but when it’s just me, home-cooked meals become a routine. This shift highlights how much parenthood requires adaptability. For those waiting for motivation, consider this a gentle nudge. Whether you’re stepping into parenthood or balancing your ambitions with family duties, remember it takes two hands to clap. Support and encouragement make the journey possible, and I’m here to share mine. Incorporating flexibility and a strong support system has been key for me. It enables me to pursue my Plan B with purpose while ensuring Little Bae feels cared for. This balance is far from perfect, but it’s real and worth sharing for others striving alongside me.

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👍 Jiayou Daphne! you getting nearer to your goals each passing days!

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