It May Be Time To HARD Reset Your Soul and Rebrand

Hello #GloGetter

In the GloGetter universe we seldomly “rebrand” or change ourselves to fit the demands of others. BUT there certainly are times when WE feel the need to change elements about ourselves and evolve into better versions of who we really desire to show up in the world as.

This is perfectly normal and essential to personal growth.

Let’s get into it.

1. Your current self image feels inauthentic and/or unsustainable.

This is a hugeee one because sometimes we get ourselves caught up in images and facades that aren’t true to who we are and the things we value.

For example, the way you have been raised may influence you to live a flashy life where people think you are rich and influential. However, you know in reality you have to bend over backwards in order to upkeep that image. Take inventory on what actions amplify this discomfort and make adjustments. Like maybe decrease the value of materialism and braggadocios nature in your personality. This will allow you a break from this image of yourself you’ve created and give you the space to rebrand yourself as a more authentic and effortless version of who you really are.

2. You Don’t Like What You Are Attracting in Life.

You know my favorite saying, “You attract where you are.”. Don’t like what you’re attracting? Change where you’re at in life. A personality adjustment is a great way to do this.

For example, if you consistently attract people who are emotionally unavailable and/or unattached; it may be because you move through the world in this way as well. Remember, people often connect with those who feel familiar and reflects parts of themselves that bring them comfort. If you’re consistently uncomfortable with, may be time to reflect on what adjustments may be necessary to walk effortlessly in the direction of the things you DO want in life.

3. Your Personality is an Easy Excuse for Why You May Not Be Achieving Your Goals.

If traits in the personality are holding you back, why keep them around? Being true to yourself doesn’t mean leaning into your hindering qualities or flaws. Sometimes it means unpacking the root of those harmful qualities, healing from the reasons why they exist, and moving on past them.

For example, if you have always considered yourself someone who is naturally lazy and slow but have big dreams of being a corporate leader, we all know that those two things do not compliment one another. Sure, once you’ve made it to the top of the later and have scored a job where you get paid to sit back and delegate, you can return to some of those lazy girlie ways, but to get to that point it’s going to have to take ACTION. It’s going to have to take motivation, sacrifice, discipline, and proactivity. All traits that a so called “lazy” person simply does not embody. If you have the desire to be a leader to begin with, that is proof that there’s a part of you that naturally defies that narrative that you are and always will be a lazy person. It may be uncomfortable to make this personality adjustment at first, because it will be hard, but the more you commit to it the less challenging it will be and the more you will step into the version of yourself you’ve always wanted to be. By time you make it to the top, that desire to laze will likely be a distant memory.

4. Your “Personality” is Hurting Those You Care About

Man, I believe we all fall victim to this one, because frankly… We’re all imperfect. Be a good friend, family member, partner, coworker, etc… Is all trial and error and we’re all figuring it out as we go. This is why communication is essential to any good relationship. If the people who care about you in your life are kindly communicating to you that particular personality traits you have are harmful to them, it’s really worth considering out growing those things (or at least identifying a healthy comprise with them depending on the situation).

For example, if you’ve always been the person who shows up to any and everything ridiculously late to the point where it’s almost expected anytime you invited out… You may want to ask your peers how this is impacting them, unless they’ve already told you. It may feel harmless to be the late friend because you see poor time management as a concrete and acceptable part of your personality, but it really may be putting strain in many points of your life. Especially for the people who depend on you. If the personality trait is causing more harm than good, what’s the point of branding that onto your self-image. Time for a rebrand at that point.

The four signs above are just a few of many reasons why we may need to adjust parts of our personality to step into the best versions of ourselves.

What are your thoughts?

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