Raising the first child unwillingly.
Raising the first child is not easy.
Because you are the greatest gift of your life.
Mom and Dad choose not to indulge me in some matters.
Even sometimes "tears will flow" simultaneously, both mothers and children.
But you believe that discipline will make me grow up.
"Raising the first child is not to be the cutest child in anyone's eyes... but to grow into a self-understanding person and be happy with others."
As a mother, raising the first child is learning both of our children and of our own.
We decided from the beginning that
Not to raise an indulgent child so that he knows that love is not equal to getting everything he wants.
But to teach him...
Everything on this planet is finite, rational, patient and waiting.
We believe that discipline does not mean austerity.
But it's to train your children to understand the "rules of life."
We taught me from a young age what to do.
There must be a time limit. There is a responsibility.
And think before doing
We use talking, explaining reasons and inviting them to think.
"I told you to do it because I'm the mother."
But use the way to ask, "What do you think?"
Give your children a chance to comment.
And learn that every action has consequences.
Of course it wasn't easy.
There are tears, there is a bend. There are days when we are tired until we want to give up.
But every time you understand the reason I explain or say "sorry" without us telling you,
It made us realize that this path is worth it.
I may not be the kid who gets everything I want.
But I'm a kid who starts to know himself, to control his emotions.
And start learning that everything in the world isn't easy...
But it's not that hard if we understand it.
We only hope for Rat Da to grow up.
Is a man who makes no demands without reason.
Not easily angry. Time is not as good.
"True love is not everything."
But is to lay a solid foundation.
Let him stand by himself on a day without his parents.
# Rat Da # Darin rat # Raising children # Raising positive children
