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sometimes anxiety isn’t about love disappearing

it’s about needing reassurance and not knowing how to ask

questions like these help couples slow down and meet each other gently. flamme gives you a safe way to talk when emotions feel heavy

#relationship #vulnerability #flamme #couples #intimacy

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sometimes anxiety isn’t about love disappearing

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