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Life choice worth a divorce?

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Prior to my marriage, I was an enthusiastic hiker. My husband initially accepted my passion for hiking. However, he is now presenting an ultimatum: cease hiking or end our relationship. Despite my efforts to accommodate his concerns, reducing my hiking frequency from weekly to bi-weekly or monthly outings, he remains unsatisfied. His primary concerns revolve around the perceived dangers associated with hiking, including encounters with wildlife, the risk of getting lost, and potential injuries. Given this scenario, what course of action would you recommend?

And for the record, I do belong to a hiking group in which one of the people is on Search and Rescue team. How much more can I be prepared?

2025/9/21 Edited to

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