Where are you From?!

It’s a question I hear all the time, and honestly, sometimes it makes me chuckle, other times it makes me think deeply: 'Where are you from?' On the surface, it seems simple, but for someone like me, with roots stretching across continents, it’s a loaded question. My answer isn't just a geographical point on a map; it's a story, a heritage, and a whole lot of pride. Growing up, navigating my identity as a Liberian girl living abroad has been a beautiful journey. There's a richness in being able to embrace two worlds. My heart beats to the rhythm of West African drums, and my soul is steeped in the vibrant traditions, the warmth of the community, and the incredible resilience of my people. It’s in the taste of cassava leaf, the intricate patterns of traditional fabrics, and the way stories are passed down through generations. These are the things that truly define "where I'm from" in a way that transcends borders. When someone asks me, I usually start with 'I'm Liberian,' and then often elaborate. It’s not always immediately understood, and that's okay. It opens up a conversation, a chance to share a piece of my world. I love talking about the warmth of Liberian hospitality, the vibrant music, and the strong family ties that are at the core of our culture. We have a saying, 'Small-small maketh big,' which speaks to our collective spirit and how every small effort contributes to something greater. This ethos deeply influences how I see the world and interact with others. There’s a unique strength that comes from having a West African background. It's in the way we celebrate, the way we mourn, and the way we support each other. It’s a collective spirit that stays with you, no matter where you are in the world. I feel a deep connection to my heritage, and it’s something I actively work to maintain, whether it’s through cooking traditional meals, listening to Liberian music, or connecting with other members of the diaspora. I also find immense joy in sharing aspects of my culture, whether it's teaching a friend a few Kpelle phrases or explaining the significance of a particular dish. Sometimes, the question can feel a bit reductive, as if my identity can be pinned down to a single location. But I've learned to see it as an opportunity. An opportunity to educate, to share, and to connect. It’s a chance to explain that my identity is a beautiful tapestry woven from different threads, all contributing to who I am today. And honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way. Embracing my West African roots is one of the most fulfilling parts of my life. It's not just where I'm from; it's who I am. It shapes my perspective, my values, and my outlook on life, making me proud to carry my heritage wherever I go.