3/21: Motherhood & Pregnancy Real Talk

🌞 Day 3:

Talking about pregnancy and motherhood in a REAL way always seems to be taboo. Like, if I want to complain, I’m going to.

I’m pictured above in my third trimester of my second pregnancy with my son. It was ROUGH. I had a toddler to look after this time so I got zero rest and I was sick all the time. I tried all the remedies but nothing ever helped, he also gave me the worst heartburn. If you’re about to go from one to two babies I suggest you:

•🤰🏻make time for yourself, have your partner or parents watch your child, so you and the baby you’re growing get rest.

•📖take your time preparing your other child that they will be a sibling; books, t.v. shows that have siblings playing, etc…

•👩🏻‍🍼soak in as much time with your other child/children because baby does take your attention even if you say you’ll balance time.

Being a mom of two gets overwhelming. It took me awhile to come to the realization that as much as I love my babies it isn’t healthy for me not to get the alone time I need. I’m starting a new gym journey soon and I’ll be doing more SAHM days in my life.

#pregnancystruggles #pregnancyrealtalk #stayathomemom #sahm #sahmlife #embracevulnerability #Lemon8Diary #healthylifestyle2024

2024/8/26 Edited to

... Read morePregnancy often comes with its share of struggles, especially for mothers transitioning from one child to two. As you prepare for this new journey, understanding common themes of exhaustion, heartburn, and the emotional journey can help. Many mothers experience feelings of overwhelm due to the demands of parenting. Sharing personal stories, like dealing with heartburn and sickness during pregnancy, can create a supportive community where all mothers feel understood. Establishing self-care practices is vital; for example, setting aside alone time allows mothers to recharge and focus on their well-being. Engaging older children in the process of becoming a sibling through books and discussions can ease the transition and maintain harmony. Moreover, being open about the challenges of parenting – including the pressure to balance your time between your children – can greatly benefit your mental health. Whether you're enjoying stay-at-home moments or facing the difficulties of the later pregnancy stages, embracing vulnerability is key. Each mother's experience is unique, but finding solidarity through shared stories can empower and uplift. Joining online communities and supporting each other with practical advice can also enhance this experience. Remember, it’s okay to express the real feelings of motherhood, and every mom's journey is valid.

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i agree that the rawness of motherhood is taboo, and pregnancy too it’s like you can’t say anything without it being “fear mongering” smh, but we love our kids so much but being a mother is the ultimate sacrifice so we should be able to say what needs to be said

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