When love is defeated for the real world

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💔 The real world is not always a miracle...When love is defeated to "the truth,"

Today I would like to share a story from an international talk show, a short conversation between a young host and a constantly sobbing female guest, but its content shook the heart and left us a big piece of thought to review...

This led to the new question: "Great love...Does it exist only in fiction? "

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🎬 A scene that's almost Happy Ending.

The girl said that she and her boyfriend were getting married, and they had even been filming a pre-wedding together, and everything seemed to be going well.

But then the world collapsed when hospital tests said that...She has "pancreatic cancer."

With a love that doesn't want the man she loves to waste time, lose the future, or take care of the dying sick, she chooses to hurt him by "lying."

"She walked over and told him...She already has someone else. She doesn't love and doesn't care about him anymore. "

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🥺 The wall that collapsed with "love."

The young host asked what happened after that? The picture she told was that of a good man who did not give up. He came to her every day, crying, and insisted, "No matter what, we will be together."

His determination and empathy completely destroyed the walls she had built; she was defeated by his seemingly great and stable love. Finally...So she decided to confess the whole "truth" to him.

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⚡ A truth more painful than necrosis.

The young host asked in hope (which is like us who are hoping), "Are you reconciled?"

Her answer made people listen to the cork until they were speechless...She recalls that after he heard the truth that she had cancer...He paused. Hesitated for a while...And turned and walked away from her

After that day, he never circled back, did not pay attention, and was never involved in her life, she tearfully told the host...

"I understand that...This is the real world, it's not a play or a movie, it's not that many miracles or deep love. "

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🧠 Thought Sediment: The Most Realistic "Humanity"

What I felt after listening to this story was a very painful but realistic presentation of humanity.

• The girl's point of view 👩 She is utterly selfless. To be a bad person in the eyes of a loved one to protect his future is very pure love. But when she opens her heart and leaves her hope, the truth received becomes a deeper wound.

• The young man's 👨 view may be angry and selfish, but on the other hand...Fighting the "third hand," it only takes heart to exchange, but dealing with "disease and death," it is a truth too heavy and frightening for one ordinary human to bear.

"No matter what, we'll be together." Sometimes it's just a quote that comes out when we don't know...The price of that promise. How expensive is it?

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🗣️ Talk: What if it's you?..What Would You Do?

I read here and asked all my friends in Lemon8:..

• 🙋‍♀️ If you are this woman...Are you going to keep lying, or are you going to tell the truth in the first place?

• 🙋‍♂️ If you are that man...Knowing this heavy truth, will you continue to shake her hand, or choose to walk away to protect your life?

You think in the real world...Love that is ready to die instead, or side by side on the darkest day, still exists? Comments can share views. I want to read everyone's opinion. 👇✨