Your feelings are always valid, however, they’re not always logical. And that’s why I’m a firm believer therapy should be less about trying to figure out feelings, and more about learning to live with them. 💚 ##mentalhealthmadina##feelings##feel##growthmindset

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... Read moreIn my personal journey with mental health, I’ve found that trying to constantly analyze and rationalize every feeling can sometimes do more harm than good. Feelings like anger, sadness, or anxiety don’t always respond to logic, and that’s perfectly normal. Instead of fighting to ‘fix’ these emotions, I’ve learned the power of acceptance—acknowledging how I feel without judgment. This approach aligns with the idea that focusing too much on how you feel can keep you stuck in an ongoing cycle of distress. For example, when anger arises, it’s easy to get caught up in it and continuously react, leading to stress and frustration. But by stepping back and simply observing the feeling, without trying to immediately respond or reason it out, I’ve found a sense of calm and clarity. Therapy techniques like mindfulness and acceptance commitment therapy (ACT) emphasize living with emotions rather than battling against them. Practicing mindfulness helped me become more aware of my thoughts and feelings as passing experiences rather than defining truths. Over time, this shift reduced my emotional overwhelm and improved my resilience. Incorporating a growth mindset also plays a role—viewing emotional struggles as opportunities for growth rather than setbacks. This mindset helped me reframe challenging feelings as valuable signals and a part of my personal development. Remember, your feelings are always valid, even if they don’t seem logical or easy to understand. Embracing them with compassion can transform your mental health journey, helping you live more peacefully with yourself and others.

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