Healthy girls read 🫶

For the last decade, I let the number on the scale define me.—nine years ago, I started my five-year vegan journey and lost over 60 lbs. I felt amazing, but if I’m being honest, I did it because I wanted to be skinny.

I eventually realized that people wanted to be my friend because of what I posted on social media and how I looked—not because they actually knew me for who I was. That number on the scale controlled me and messed with my mental health.

But something clicked. I’m not worried about that number anymore. Now, I care more about being healthy—so my kid never has to feel the pain of watching a parent get weaker or sicker due to poor life choices. My new goal is to live a long, healthy life—for them, and for myself.

Some things about my lifestyle today:

• Yes, I still eat in a “calorie deficit”—not to be skinny, but because I feel awful when I overeat or binge eat.

• I prioritize protein and fiber because that’s what my body needs to feel good.

• Yes, I’ll eat a regular cookie—not the no-sugar, gluten-free, preservative-free version—because I’m not depriving myself anymore. One cookie isn’t a failure, and I’m done feeling ashamed or turning to binge eating because I “messed up.”

• One day of not hitting your goals is NOT a setback.

I’m posting this to hold myself accountable. 💛

#embracehealth #health #caloriedefiict

2025/7/11 Edited to

... Read moreIn today's society, the pressure to look a certain way can be overwhelming. Many individuals, especially women, feel defined by the scale rather than focusing on inner health. It's crucial to shift this perspective towards health and wellness that comes from balanced choices rather than restrictive diets. Research shows that a focus on nutritious foods, adequate protein intake, and living in moderation enhances both physical and mental health. Consuming a balanced diet rich in whole foods helps in maintaining energy levels and overall well-being. As you embark on your own health journey, remember that small changes can lead to significant outcomes, and any setbacks should be viewed as stepping stones rather than failures. Finding support through communities and sharing experiences can also play an essential role in maintaining motivation and accountability. Let’s prioritize mental wellness in our health journeys and embrace the idea that it’s not about being skinny but about being healthy and happy.

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