How did you pick yourself backup?

I fell hard,so hard that at the same time I lost my girlfriend who had my two kids and I lost my job in the same day. I had to move back to my mom house at 28. My mom drank with me for 2 days straight and the 3rd day she told me I needed to look for job or go to school. I didn’t say anything. I praise God and pray to him diligently I received a phone call asking if I wanted to go to school I said yes and the medical field is what I chose because of the pay. I got my AA and worked in the health field for 3 years. The thing about falling is that once you get back up, you can soar as high as you want. #letschat

2025/3/6 Edited to

... Read moreWe all experience tough times that can feel overwhelming. Whether it’s losing a job, going through a breakup, or facing personal struggles, the journey of recovery is vital. The key is to cultivate resilience. Start by allowing yourself to feel the pain and learn from your experiences. Surround yourself with supportive individuals who inspire growth. Finding purpose through education or new work can provide direction. Setting small, achievable goals can help rebuild confidence. Remember, falling doesn’t define you—it's the strength to rise again that illustrates true character. Embrace your journey, learn from it, and soar higher than ever before.

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