tough pills i’ve had to swallow in college
Hopping onto the Girl Growth trend here on Lemon8!!! All the posts I've seen on this topic are adorable and it's so sweet to see other people's experiences as a girl. 🥰🥰🥰
I'll be going into my third year of college this fall and I've definitely had many HARD PILLS to swallow. Here are just 3 that have definitely been the toughest to swallow and took me the longest to learn:
1. No one is responsible for your happiness and success EXCEPT FOR YOU.
• All of your potential success and happiness can only be created by you. There's no one else who can do it for you.
• This usually means you're gonna have to start putting in more work to reach your goals and set boundaries to establish your happiness 🫶🏼
2. Sometimes it's quite difficult and takes a long time to friends who care and are worthwhile (aka not fake!)
• Spotting fake friends isn't as easy as everyone makes it seem so don't feel bad if you haven't found your group yet!
• Remember that the people in your life directly influence your mood and happiness so try to surround yourself with uplifting people.
3. Sometimes the basics are all you need to feel better.
• DO NOT let big companies scam you into buying a bunch of wellness products you DO NOT NEED.
• A lot of these products don't even do what they're supposed to (marketing scam!) and they won't help you feel better!
• Just remember the basics!!! This means drinking enough water, getting enough sleep, eating nutritious meals, and spending time outdoors!
College life is a pivotal phase filled with valuable lessons that shape personal growth and future success. Many students face tough realities that, although challenging to accept, ultimately help develop resilience, emotional intelligence, and independence. The first hard truth is that your happiness and success depend solely on you. Unlike high school, where parents and teachers guide daily routines, college demands self-motivation and accountability. Setting clear goals, managing time effectively, and enforcing personal boundaries become crucial skills that influence not only academic achievements but also emotional well-being. Finding genuine friendships amidst a sea of acquaintances can be difficult. True friends support you during hardships and foster positive development. However, spotting fake friends requires discernment and patience. It’s common to feel lonely before forming a reliable support network, but remember that carefully choosing uplifting people will enhance your mental health and overall experience. Many college students fall prey to costly wellness products marketed as quick fixes for stress and fatigue. Recognizing that basics like hydration, sleep, balanced nutrition, and outdoor activity form the foundation of good health is vital. Relying on simple, evidence-based habits improves mood and cognitive function while avoiding unnecessary expenses. Ultimately, learning these three lessons—taking responsibility for your happiness, valuing authentic social connections, and focusing on foundational wellness—empowers students to thrive during college and beyond. Embracing these truths fosters emotional maturity and equips young adults with practical tools for lifelong success.
i thought u were talking about ACTUAL pills