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5 Reasons Why Kind People Can't Change

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💡 5 Reasons Why Kind People Can't Change

When you want to change but can't,

"I wonder if I have a weak will."

You can blame them, right?

But in fact,

it's not that we can't change

Sometimes the mind is trying to protect itself.

I can't refuse.

I'm gonna put up with it.

Keep trying.

Repeating the same relationships.

You put yourself off.

That's all.

More than weakness.

Because my heart is used to the way I have lived so far

It could be something that's happening.

In the heart of man,

There is work to return to the original state.

That's why, uh,

When I try to change, I get anxious

Sometimes I feel like I'm being pulled back to my previous self.

But

That's not a bad thing.

Rather

Because I'm trying to change

There may be shaking.

You don't have to rush.

Even little by little

If you can change the way you interact with yourself

My heart will follow 🌿

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Have you ever felt like "I want to change, but I come back"?

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