So… what exactly went wrong? 🧩 The cracks started to show As the weeks went by, I slowly started noticing little things that didn’t quite sit right with me. There was a colleague whom I became chatty with after multiple interactions and working couple shifts together. She wasn’t exactly

Ever heard the stereotype about working in an SME? You know… the one where people say the pay is low, everyone wears multiple hats, and there isn’t much structure. Turns out, it existed for a reason. 🌱 Why I left my previous job I left a comfortable office job because I was burnt out.

was something someone close to me once said, and it stuck with me now, looking back, i feel i can actually compile a list of red flags, whether it’s talking stages, situationships, pirate ships… whatever you want to call it — it always starts with confusion 🌀 you tell yourself it’s ju

like how the heck did deleted suddenly get traction with no intentions for such. i’m genuinely grateful people would pause to read my thoughts and reflections. that alone means a lot. and honestly, it was never meant to diss anyone. it was just a space for me to pen down messy thoughts and

she’s gone. yeap, the girl i was excited to talk to these past couple months… relieved? in a way, yes i can start posting again, no longer second guessing, no longer wondering if i’m “too emotional” for her to see. but then again… so what? this has always been my diary, my quiet space f

My close friends know that my glow up arc didn’t come from nowhere. It came from a couple emotional scars and a lot of self reflection. Those experiences changed how I see people, how I set boundaries, and how I try to show up for myself. So you’d think I’d be wiser when it comes to protecting my h

I’ve always been more of an organic-meet kind of person and never really liked dating apps. But it’s 2026, I’ve spent a year healing, and I thought I’d just try I’m technically in social spaces all the time. The gym, run clubs, cafés. But I’m not really… socially engaging. I usually just go, do

With 2025 coming to an end, I thought it would be nice to write something reflective and give this account a fresh breath of life ✨ This year did not unfold the way all those TikToks promised. You know the ones that said if you eat twelve grapes under a table at midnight you will magically find

They say every guy will fall in love with three types of girls in his life: the one he ends up with, the ex who plays him, and the first love who feels like she was the love of his life. I can already tick two out of three, so I suppose I am on schedule. This is not a post to roast my ex. It is

I used to be someone obsessed with controlling the narrative, a perfectionist who cared too much about how others saw me. Back then, whenever things went wrong, I would desperately try to salvage the situation. I would explain, overthink, and do whatever I could to make people see my side. I va