RULES FOR MY FUTURE KIDS
man, parenting… let’s just say this is not something I want to get into for at least the next 10 years 😂😂
I envision my parenting style as free and caring. I want my kid to feel like they’re my best friend, and can come to me with anything. I also want them to feel empowered to make good and healthy decisions.
1. You don’t have to do any activities you don’t want to (sports, musical instruments, etc)💪
2. You can express yourself through clothing and accessories, regardless of if they conform to gender norms 👯♀️
3. We accept everyone for who they are 🤍
4. Home schooled through high school, unless they express they’d like to go!🎒
5. You don’t have to force yourself to eat at mealtimes if you’re not hungry 🍊
6. Snacks are allowed, even in the middle of the night 🌙 this kitchen never closes
7. Family members are just like anyone else, if you don’t want to see them for valid reasons, that is okay 🚫
8. iPads and video games will be allowed, with no web browsing access until 13 🎯
9. When you start going places without me, you get a cell phone 📲
10. Unless you’ve given me a reason to feel that you’re not using the phone responsibly, your phone is your private place 🧘♀️
11. No religion will be taught in our household, but we will support our children making their own educated decision to join one 🙌🏻
When considering the rules for your future kids, embrace a parenting philosophy that is both liberating and supportive. By allowing your children to express themselves, you foster a healthy sense of identity and self-worth. Prioritizing their emotional well-being means not forcing them into activities they may not enjoy, and understanding that hunger does not adhere to a strict schedule. Moreover, the concept of unscheduled snacking and open kitchen hours ensures that your kids have the freedom to listen to their bodies. These practices help cultivate independence and responsibility from an early age. It’s also crucial to recognize that family relationships can be complex; validating your child's feelings about visiting relatives teaches them healthy boundaries. Additionally, setting age-appropriate limits on technology use, like restricting web access until a certain age, prepares your kids for responsible digital citizenship. As they grow and start engaging with the world independently, having their own smartphone can facilitate communication while respecting their privacy. Finally, embracing a non-religious upbringing encourages children to make informed choices about faith when they are ready, opening the door to exploring diverse perspectives. Creating an environment grounded in love and acceptance allows children to feel safe in their exploration of ideas and emotions.
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