Love is 🫶

From my personal experiences, I've come to understand that true love is best judged by what people protect and prioritize in their lives. It’s often said that actions speak louder than words, and this is especially true when it comes to love. I've seen situations where someone’s actions didn’t align with their promises, and it became clear that their limits, rather than my worth, shaped their inability to show love effectively. One important lesson is recognizing that love cannot coexist with harm. Being in a relationship where ongoing harm occurs, whether emotional or physical, is a clear sign that true love is missing. This realization helped me set healthier boundaries and prioritize my own well-being. Additionally, the idea that love is contingent upon what you 'bring to the table' is misleading. Genuine love doesn’t base acceptance on achievements or conditions; it embraces you as you are. Embracing this truth was freeing for me, reminding me that I deserve love right now, not after I change or prove myself. Overall, love is demonstrated through consistent protective actions and respect for boundaries. Watching what someone protects and how they treat you reveals their true love language more than empty words ever could. This mindset shift has significantly improved my relationships and self-worth.