Imagine leaving a 23yr relationship 🫣
That was a difficult time of my life. 23yr relationship of which 15 we were married, 3 amazing kids a couple business’s a really broken little girl that I was. No self love, my identity was him.
Back in 2010-2011 I attempted to unalive myself. I was always blamed to be the problem and I believed it. I can’t even remember the date my brain has removed that from my memory. But u did remember how I felt and what I did.
Took me till Jan 2022 to put my foot down and ask for a separation which led to our divorce. I’m proud that this time I didn’t run back. I’ve learned so much and I’m learning to love myself more! I’m becoming the best version of me.
So let me tell you it’s not easy! But it’s worth it! You can do it! Take it one moment at a time❤️ I’m here with you. #divorcedwomen #divorcejourney #newbeginning #loveyourselffirst #loveyourselffirstArizona
Ending a long-term relationship can be one of life's toughest challenges, especially when it transforms your identity and self-worth. After over two decades as a partner and parent, the process of rediscovering oneself is crucial. The journey often involves overcoming feelings of blame, loneliness, and despair. It’s normal to feel lost when untangling your identity from your partner. Moving forward requires acknowledging your pain and committing to self-love. Healing takes time; it's important to take small steps towards your own happiness daily. For many, reaching out for support from communities, whether in-person or online, can provide comfort. The hashtags #divorcedwomen, #divorcejourney, and #newbeginning can connect you with others who resonate with your experiences. Many individuals share their stories of empowerment after separation, showcasing their resilience and the importance of personal growth. Consider engaging in wellness activities that enhance your mental health, like mindfulness practices, therapy, and positive affirmations. It’s also beneficial to explore your interests and passions that may have been set aside during your relationship. Redefining what brings you joy and fulfillment can lead to a profound transformation. Reinventing yourself is not just a possibility; it's an opportunity to thrive in a new chapter of life. Embrace this journey with grace and patience, knowing that brighter days are ahead.
Sending you and your kids so much love and healing! And wishing you luck on your new journey 🥰❤️