how to get over your ex

the main thing to focus on while going through a breakup is YOURSELF and your growth. you might be inclined to check their socials, focus on what they're doing, and obsess over what went wrong and what could have gone differently. but right now, your wellbeing is the priority, and these are some ways you can focus on it.

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2025/3/18 Edited to

... Read moreGetting over an ex can be a challenging experience, but focusing on personal growth is essential. One effective strategy is to **take yourself on dates**, which allows you to appreciate alone time and learn more about who you are outside of a relationship. Additionally, don’t overlook the importance of **platonic relationships**. Friends can offer support and companionship during tough times, reminding you that you aren’t alone. Keeping a **journal** can also be incredibly helpful; not only does it provide a space to express emotions, but it can track your healing journey. This way, you can reflect on your progress and remind yourself that the pain will eventually pass. These practices can lead you to a healthier mindset and a brighter future, ensuring that your main priority is your well-being.

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Sometimes you run into an ex at the worst time. Journaling and venting to friends always helps me get over the awkwardness and move forward.

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