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Do you talk about your ex to your partner?
Hot take but I genuinely do not want to hear about your past relationships. Not your ex. Not your “almost.” Not your childhood crush. Not the girl you liked in middle school. Let’s just pretend nobody else ever existed before me 😭 I don’t know what it is, but something about partners casually ta
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