looking for girlfriends!!

hii zesties! hoping to make more friendss so i took up the courage to post this

about me,,

im 19f this yr n im in my first year of uni

im quite a shy n awkward person n going into uni i feel like i've become more introverted 🤡🤡 but once we get to know eo btr ill open up more 👻👻

i loveeeee thai bl korean bl chinese taiwan bl ANY BL its just SO GOOD 😭😭

currently just finished semantic error and abo desire and its amazinggg, would defo recommend!

i also love watching chinese dramas and variety shows like 跑男 currently waiting for the next season to air 😎😎 and as for c dramas i ran out dramas to watch so if you have any good rom com c drama recommendations can rec me pls 🥹🥹

i love going for runs (although ill end up walking halfway 💀💀) but i rlly love running/walking and looking at the scenery while not thinking abt anything at all (feels therapeutic 🫂🫂) and i wna try gg to the gym but it lowkey feels scary and i dont rlly know what to do in the gym soo i've stucked with running

i love both english and chinese songsss

for english my favourite artists are henry moodie (PLS COME SG AGAIN), taylor swift, gracie abrams and moree! currently playing mood swings by henry moodie, darling, he lied by bixby and dear parents (youtube) by tate mcrae on repeat 🎶🎶

while for chinese i listen to songs from various artists but currently i've been repeating 根本你不懂的爱我 cover by en (i swear i loved every single song he has covered its AMAZING) and also 欢乐世界 by 3p (THEY ARE CMG SG WOOOOO)

im a picky eater and a sweet tooth (i love my ice creams chocolates and all the unhealthy food 🫠🫠) but i still love finding new places to eat good food and also wld love to go cafe hopping arnd sg!

thats about it soo if anyone wna be friends can pm/comment!

2025/11/3 Edited to

... Read moreMaking friends during your first year at university can feel challenging, especially if you're naturally shy or introverted. I remember my own experience starting uni—I felt nervous and tended to keep to myself at first. But joining groups or sharing your interests online can be a great way to break the ice. For example, being an enthusiast of BL dramas, like "Semantic Error" or "Abo Desire," can help connect you with others who share those niche interests. When it comes to variety shows like 跑男 (Running Man), joining fan forums or social media groups can keep you in the loop about new seasons and create lively discussions. If you find yourself running out of Chinese rom-com dramas to watch, exploring recommendations on platforms like Viki, iQIYI, or WeTV can introduce you to hidden gems. Running and walking outdoors is indeed a wonderful way to clear your mind and enjoy nature's beauty, especially during sunsets. If the gym feels intimidating, consider beginner-friendly fitness classes or workout apps that guide you step-by-step. Starting gradually helps build confidence and turns fitness into a fun part of your routine. In terms of music, mixing English artists like Henry Moodie and Taylor Swift with Chinese cover artists enriches your playlist and keeps listening fresh and exciting. Don't hesitate to explore music communities or attend local live performances—it’s another perfect way to meet friends with similar tastes. Lastly, embracing your love for food and sweets by discovering new eateries and cafes across Singapore is a fantastic way to socialize while enjoying your favorite treats. Coffee shops and dessert spots often host events or have communal seating conducive to striking up casual conversations. Overall, sharing your genuine interests and taking small social steps can open up rewarding friendships during university life. Keep being yourself, and new friends will find their way to you!

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