“Blood is thicker than water”Whats your thoughts?

You know the saying, 'Blood is thicker than water.' For so long, I just accepted it, but after my own experiences, I had to dig deeper. What I found was fascinating and completely changed my perspective! Many people believe the full, original quote is actually 'The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.' This suggests that the bonds you choose to make – like friendships or alliances (covenants) – are stronger than mere biological ties. It really makes you think, doesn't it? The common interpretation, of course, is that family bonds are inherently stronger and more important than any other relationship. But as my personal story shows, that's not always the reality for everyone. When you're constantly let down, or worse, betrayed by those who are supposed to be your closest allies, that saying starts to feel like a heavy burden rather than a comforting truth. I’ve heard so many stories, and lived my own, where 'blood is not always thicker than water.' Sometimes, family dynamics can be really toxic. It could be constant criticism, emotional manipulation, or just a lack of support when you need it most. These experiences can be incredibly heartbreaking. It's difficult to accept that the people you share DNA with might not be the ones who truly have your back. This journey has led many of us, including myself, to discover the power of 'chosen family.' These are the friends, mentors, and partners who show up for you, support you unconditionally, and genuinely make you feel loved and safe. Their loyalty isn't based on an obligation of birth, but on mutual respect, love, and shared values. And often, these bonds can feel far more solid and reliable than those with biological relatives. The pain of family betrayal is unique. When 'blood is thicker than water' fails, it can leave deep wounds. It makes you question everything. But it also opens your eyes. It teaches you that true connection isn't about genetics; it's about actions, respect, and consistent love. My advice? Don't feel guilty for prioritizing your peace and well-being, even if it means creating distance from family members who consistently cause you pain. It's okay to acknowledge that sometimes, for your own sanity, blood isn't the strongest bond. So, what are your thoughts? Is blood always thicker than water in your experience? Or have you, like me, found strength and solace in the 'covenant' of chosen relationships?