2025: New Year, New App. Bye TikTok!
I gained a small tiktok following in the year of 2019 after my stepdad Luke died, and I began to use the app as a coping mechanism. It started with videos of my cats going viral, and slowly snowballed into me doing comedy skits and vent videos in my ex's F.R.O.G.
I found my current partner of 4 years on TikTok, I found so many of my friends on TikTok after writing (and giving up on) my book Soup Spoon, and I've gone through homelessness on TikTok. My dad and grandmother both died in 2024 and sometimes the only thing that got me through the day was the funny little gay people on my phone. Major corporations aren't your friends, but the app changed my life in a way I will never forget and helped me through a lot. I don't think anything like it will ever be allowed to exist in the US again, or at least not for a long time, which is why we have to strongarm other apps into the closest approximation we can.
We are boycotting anything Meta for OBVIOUS reasons, so you can find me here for funny videos, on BlueSky @guppybug.bsky.social, and on Tumblr @hushguppy
Stay safe. Stay strong. Let's #makelemon8unhinged and let's #makelemon8queer
As we step into 2025, the landscape of social media continues to evolve. With various apps vying for attention, many users like me are searching for alternatives that offer genuine connection and community. TikTok, once a haven for creativity and support, is now viewed critically due to its corporate practices and potential for data misuse. This transformation highlights a prominent trend where users prioritize platforms that respect privacy and foster positive interactions. Platforms like Lemon8 emerge as viable alternatives, allowing users to share authentic content without the overbearing corporate influence. As individuals seek spaces to express themselves freely, the movement against giant tech firms only intensifies. The connection to broader themes of identity and community is especially significant as many of us explore spaces that feel more inclusive and reflective of our true selves. Additionally, the rise of hashtags like #makelemon8unhinged and #makelemon8queer underscores the call for platforms that support marginalized voices and encourage diverse content. These movements resonate deeply with users who have turned social media into a lifeline during challenging times, reaffirming the necessity of nurturing our online communities. In navigating this shift, it’s essential to remain aware of the implications and responsibilities each platform holds. As we embrace new app experiences, let’s stay committed to building supportive and vibrant communities that reflect our values and foster genuine connections.
