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A few words made us believe in ourselves.

Has anyone ever felt like this?

That we do something

And then someone admired

It makes you feel very good... so good that you want to cry.

Because for us

This is hardly the first time in my life to really feel this way.

In the past, when doing something wrong

Usually found only adding

Rubbing in front of a lot of people.

Until sometimes do not dare to think, do not dare to do anything

Because afraid that it would be wrong

Sometimes I haven't even explained anything.

Was already convicted

Many times, we can think of something.

But dare not speak out

Don't dare show it off.

Sometimes secretly ask yourself that

"If you think about it, why not?"

But in the end, but told myself that

Forget it.

And on the day we do something good,

No one has ever said any words of admiration.

Until the last

We also became passive about living.

Whether it's good or bad,

I didn't want to tell anyone.

Not very pleased with anything

And didn't feel bad about anyone.

Because just living each day

It was exhausting enough.

Until one day...

There's someone

That sees value in us.

And believe in us.

A few of his sentences.

Instead, we feel convinced of ourselves.

It makes us realize

How important is "confidence"?

Because when we're confident in ourselves,

It's like there's some power.

That makes it easier for us to move forward.

Maybe... our best charm.

Probably not a face.

Not perfection.

But is

"Self-confidence."

And that kind of confidence.

It should actually be something we've been getting since we were kids.

There should be someone who says

"You're doing great."

# Not confident in yourself # No confidence # Knot in mind # People with knots

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