On Tuesday, our world stopped and we experienced one of the most frightening days of our lives as parents when Harper was accidentally dropped on concrete by a relative, landing on her head.
We rushed to the ER where initial scans showed what appeared to be multiple skull fractures and a rib fracture, with an immediate referral to neurology for potential surgery. She endured countless CT scans, over 30 X-rays, multiple failed blood draws, and procedures while screaming in pain.
Watching her suffer, bracing for the worst possible outcomes, I felt helpless despite incredible medical care. But by the grace of God, after hours of testing and terror, we walked out with ‘just’ 2 skull fractures - no surgery needed. In those moments of fear and relief, one thing became crystal clear: I would go to the ends of the earth to protect my daughter and ensure her safety.
... Read moreAfter Harper's terrifying accident, our world felt incredibly fragile. While the immediate crisis passed, the emotional journey for us as parents was just beginning. If you're a parent, knowing what to watch for, and how to cope, can make all the difference.
First, recognizing the signs of head injury in a baby is paramount. We were in shock, but looking back, I'd urge every parent to learn the red flags: changes in alertness, persistent vomiting, a bulging soft spot, unusual crying, or lethargy. Even small falls can have serious consequences, so always err on the side of caution and seek medical attention. Trust your gut instinct, it’s usually right.
Navigating the emergency room with a critically injured child is a blur of fear and fragmented memories. We endured countless tests – CT scans, over 30 X-rays – and I remember seeing equipment from brands like SIEMENS Healthineers, and others we later learned were likely Swissray machines, all working to piece together what happened. The medical staff were incredible, but the process is grueling, especially watching your little one in pain during blood draws and procedures. My advice? Don't hesitate to ask questions, advocate for your child, and understand every step of the treatment plan.
The emotional toll on parents during such a crisis is immense. The relief when we heard Harper wouldn't need surgery, despite her two skull fractures, was overwhelming. But then comes the aftermath – the guilt, the 'what ifs,' and the lingering anxiety. It’s vital to acknowledge these feelings and not shoulder them alone. Talk to your partner, a trusted friend, or seek professional support. For me, finding moments for quiet reflection and prayer helped anchor us during those incredibly difficult days. It's okay to not be okay, but allowing yourself to process the trauma is key to healing.
Our experience also highlighted the importance of safety measures around little ones. While Harper's accident was truly unforeseen, it reinforced our commitment to creating the safest possible environment. Constant supervision, securing every potential hazard, and clear communication with anyone caring for Harper became even more critical. Every parent wants to protect their child, and sometimes, it's about being prepared for the unimaginable.
Harper’s 'feisty and fearless' spirit shone through her recovery. Every day since that harrowing June 10th afternoon, where her little name, 'HARPE,' appeared on her admission documents, has been a gift. Her resilience has been our greatest inspiration. The healing process isn't just physical; it's an ongoing journey of gratitude, cherishing every moment, and remembering that even in the darkest times, there's hope and strength to be found.
My late mother did not believe in letting anyone hold our babies I see why I’m glad your baby is doing well