Pms can go kick some rocks

The other day I started spiraling.

I was a bad mom. A bad wife. Bad at my job. Convinced I was failing at all of it.

Then I checked my cycle. Oh. Yep. That tracks.

Sometimes the cycle is a bitch. And the spiral feels so real. But the feelings aren’t facts.

You’re not failing. You’re cycling. 💛

#pms #hormones #momlife #fitnessjourney

4/17 Edited to

... Read moreDealing with PMS can often feel like an emotional rollercoaster, especially during the luteal phase when hormone fluctuations peak. I noticed that during this time, my thoughts can spiral quickly into harsh self-criticism, convincing me that I'm not doing enough as a mom, wife, or professional. It’s crucial to remind ourselves that these feelings aren’t reliable facts—they’re influenced by shifting hormones. A helpful strategy I found is to track my menstrual cycle closely. Recognizing patterns in my mood changes allows me to anticipate and better manage these challenging emotions. When the 'luteal phase brain' kicks in and starts being difficult—as the OCR text humorously puts it, "My luteal phase brain is being a bitch... time to run until she shuts up"—I give myself permission to pause, practice self-care, and avoid making important decisions. Exercise and movement, like a quick run or gentle yoga, really help me reset and calm the inner turmoil. Also, journaling about these cycles helps externalize the feelings rather than internalizing failure. Sharing experiences with other moms or women on similar fitness journeys provides a supportive community that understands these hormonal impacts. Remember, you’re not failing at kindness or life—you’re simply cycling. Embracing this perspective can significantly reduce stress and enhance emotional well-being during PMS. Instead of fighting the hormonal tides, acknowledge them with compassion and give yourself grace—this is a vital part of holistic health that often gets overlooked.