Be honest… how can i glow up?

Hey everyone! I totally get that feeling of wanting to figure out your ultimate alt or goth glow up. For so long, I felt like I was missing some secret handbook on how to really nail that noticeable look, especially as a Black girl rocking locs. It's a unique journey, and I've learned so much along the way about transforming your vibe while staying true to your alt-goth roots. So, if you're like me and ready to level up your aesthetic, here are my go-to tips! First up, let's talk fashion beyond the basics. While I absolutely adore my black clothes, a true alt-goth glow up means diving into textures and layers. Think velvet dresses, lace tops, fishnet bodysuits under graphic tees (maybe even one with a cool skull and flame design!). Don't shy away from faux leather harnesses or studded belts to add that extra edge. Layering is key: a band tee with a long-sleeve mesh top underneath, or a black crop top paired with a flowing, distressed cardigan. This adds depth and visual interest, making your outfit more dynamic than just a single black piece. And those classic platform boots? A non-negotiable for that alt silhouette! Next, let's get into making your face fit the fantasy with dark makeup. Forget subtle – we're aiming for impact! My favorite way to achieve this is with bold eyeliner. Whether it's a sharp wing that extends dramatically or graphic lines that create unique shapes, it instantly screams alt. Dark eyeshadows, especially deep plums, charcoals, and of course, black, are perfect for creating that smoldering smokey eye. And for lips, don't be afraid to experiment with black, deep burgundies, or even dark blues. Adding some carefully placed contour can also enhance that edgy, defined look. Remember those skull earrings I love? Dark makeup really helps them pop! Now, for the most personal part of my glow up: styling locs for that alt/goth aesthetic. I'm super passionate about my locs and definitely wasn't cutting them – and you don't have to either to rock an alt look! There are so many amazing ways to integrate them. Temporary hair color waxes in silver, deep red, or even a vibrant blue can give your locs a dramatic temporary shift. Accessories are your best friend here. I’ve found that hair rings, especially with tiny skulls or metallic designs, woven into individual locs make a huge difference. Beaded locs with dark, ornate beads or even small chains can add a unique gothic touch. For styling, try pulling half your locs up into a high ponytail or bun, letting the rest cascade down, or creating intricate updos with braids and twists. Even simple, sleek styles can be elevated with a dark headscarf or a velvet hair wrap. It’s all about letting your locs be an extension of your alt identity. Finally, don't forget the details and accessories. These are what truly tie the whole look together and make it *yours*. Think about statement pieces like chunky chokers, spiked bracelets, or elaborate rings. Even little things, like having a unique phone case or a bag adorned with patches, contribute to your overall alt vibe. And hey, if your room has a cool 'SUMMON DEMONS IN THE BATHROOM' sign like mine, that personal touch shows your personality shines through everywhere! For instance, collecting gothic-themed items like jester skulls or scattered bats can truly personalize your space and reflect your aesthetic. Ultimately, a true alt or goth glow up is about confidence and embracing what makes you feel powerful and authentic. It's an ongoing journey of experimenting, finding what speaks to you, and owning every single bit of your unique style. I hope these tips help you on your path to feeling totally noticeable and utterly amazing!