We gotta put our spouses first 💯

In my personal experience, putting my spouse first has truly been the cornerstone of a happy, enduring relationship. It’s easy to get caught up in the chaos of parenting and daily responsibilities, but neglecting your partner can create distance over time. The idea that your marriage should never go on 'cruise control' while raising kids rings so true. When children are young, they naturally demand a lot of attention, but it’s essential to remember that after those hectic years pass, your spouse remains your lifelong companion. One practical way to put your spouse first is to regularly set aside quality time together—whether it’s a date night, a shared hobby, or simply uninterrupted conversations. This helps keep the connection alive and prevents feelings of neglect. It’s also crucial to communicate openly about feelings and support each other’s dreams and challenges, not just those related to your children. I’ve found that when my partner and I prioritize each other, it creates a stable foundation not only for our marriage but also for our family. Children benefit from seeing a strong, loving partnership; it models healthy relationships and emotional security. "Falling asleep at the wheel" by ignoring your marriage while focusing solely on kids can be a recipe for regret, as the OCR excerpt suggests. Investing time and care in your spouse ensures your marriage lasts a lifetime, providing both partners fulfillment beyond parenting years.