I Just Get Shaded by Housekeeping??

So I was staying at a hotel this weekend, and before heading out I left $2 on the table with a little note that said “Thank you ❤️” to be polite.

When I came back, the room wasn’t cleaned properly… bed half-made, trash still there, but my note had another line added under my handwriting. I have no idea what it says. 😭

I cannot stop thinking did I accidentally offend them? Or is $2 just that bad of a tip?? What’s the right amount to tip for hotel housekeeping these days?

#AskLemon8 #letschat #hotels #tip #story

2025/11/11 Edited to

... Read moreThat feeling of confusion when you try to do something nice, like leaving a 'Thank you' note with a tip, and it just doesn't go as planned is so relatable! My own experience, like the one shared in the article, often leaves me wondering if I've missed some unwritten rules. It really makes you think about all those little 'housekeeping reminders' we should keep in mind when staying at a hotel, especially regarding tips. Beyond just the amount, there's quite a bit of etiquette around tipping hotel housekeeping that I've learned over the years. Firstly, consistency is key if you're staying for multiple nights. It's often better to leave a tip daily rather than one lump sum at the end of your stay. Why? Because different housekeepers might service your room on different days. This way, the person who actually cleaned your room that day receives your gratitude directly. A small 'Thank you' note alongside the cash is always a nice touch, just like the one I tried leaving, as it shows personal appreciation. Now, regarding the amount. While the article mentioned a $2 tip causing confusion, general recommendations usually range from $2 to $5 per night, per guest. For longer stays or if you've made a particularly big mess (we've all been there with kids or after a long trip!), consider bumping that up a bit. For luxury hotels, $5 or more per night is often expected. I've found that leaving it in a visible spot, perhaps on the pillow or nightstand, with a clear note, helps ensure it's recognized as a tip for the housekeeper. But 'housekeeping reminders' go beyond just money. I've learned that a little effort on my part can make a huge difference for the staff. For example, gathering all your trash in one spot, especially if you have a lot, can save them significant time. Placing used towels in the tub or a designated area also helps. If you have specific preferences, like wanting certain toiletries replenished or needing extra towels, a polite note can communicate this clearly without causing extra work or confusion. Another big one is the 'Do Not Disturb' sign. While it's there for your privacy, remember to remove it if you actually want your room cleaned! I've sometimes forgotten and then wondered why my room wasn't serviced, only to realize my mistake. If you'll be out for the day, removing the sign helps them plan their schedule more efficiently. If you prefer not to have your room cleaned daily, you can still leave a tip at the front desk for the housekeeping staff, or simply leave it on the last day with a note explaining it's for the team. Ultimately, these small gestures and 'housekeeping reminders' are about showing respect for the hard work that goes into making our hotel stays comfortable. It’s not just about avoiding 'confusion' but about fostering a positive experience for everyone involved. What other tips or 'reminders' do you find helpful when dealing with hotel housekeeping?

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No matter the amount of the tip your room should have been cleaned bec you are paying for that in the cost of your room

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Sassy Wolf

That housekeeper was wrong for the reaction to the tip. I am a former housekeeper myself, and tips were always appreciated but never expected. Not were they always monetary. While the cost of staying in a hotel is costly, housekeepers are not paid well. Most make minimum wage, or a few pennies over. Tips are at the guest’s discretion. If the housekeeper has cleaned the room properly and there are no issues and you’re feeling generous and are ABLE to, feel free to tip, but it’s not required. If there is an issue with the way the room was cleaned, or any of the linens call from desk or even housekeeping and they’ll send someone up to correct the mistake and may even discount of provide a comp to your room. In this situation the housekeeper is in the wrong and I am sorry for the ungrateful attitude towards you.

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