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Words to give to people who noticed that they were raised by poisonous parents

"Hello, I'm Sayako, a psychological counselor.

Today, I would like to give you the words I want to give to you who realized that you may have been raised by a poisonous parent. I think that realizing it is a brave step in itself. "

"Have you ever felt an emotion that's stuck somewhere in your heart?

However, having such thoughts may hinder your growth. So, if you change your perspective a little, you may gain new awareness.

5 Words to Send to People Who Realized That You Might Have Raised a Poisonous Parent

1. * * "Try to see your parents as a human being" * *

Parents are also people who need love and support. Knowing the background and story behind their actions and words can change the way you see yourself.

2. * * "Don't justify your feelings" * *

"I often wonder if it's okay to worry about this, but what you feel is all important emotions. Don't deny your feelings and accept them!"

3. * * "Develop self-esteem by yourself" * *

"It is important to take care of yourself, not just the evaluation from others. To do that, start by praising yourself. Let's be aware of small successes every day."

You can t change the past, but you can choose the future.

You can feel the influence of the past, but it doesn t define who you are now. Think about what you can choose for the future. Move forward with a new approach!

5. * * "Healing begins with yourself" * *

Support for others is important, but start the healing process on your own. Spending time loving yourself will enrich your inner self.

"I hope these words lighten your heart even a little. You have the power to overcome the past, so take care of yourself with peace of mind!"

If you find this reel useful, save it!

Please share your experiences and thoughts in the comments. If you want to deepen your self-understanding, please follow me and let's continue our journey together! ✨ "

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... Read more毒親育ちに気づくことは、非常に勇気のいる一歩ですが、それを機に自己理解や心のケアを始めることができます。私自身も過去に毒親育ちと向き合い、自己肯定感の低さに悩んでいた時期がありました。そのときに実感したのは、親をただ悪者として見るのではなく、一人の人間として理解しようとする姿勢が心の重荷を少しずつ軽くしてくれたということです。 また、自分の感情を正当化し、否定せずに受け入れることは、自己肯定感を育てる上で不可欠です。私の場合、「こんなことで悩んでいいのかな?」という思いがよく浮かびましたが、その悩みを無視せず日記に書き出し、自分の感情を認める練習を続けました。これが小さな安心感を生み、自己肯定感の土台づくりにつながりました。 さらに、過去の出来事は変えられませんが、未来の選択は自分に委ねられています。これは、自分の人生に責任を持つという意味であり、新しい価値観や行動パターンを取り入れることが可能です。例えば、私はカウンセリングや自己啓発書を活用することで、自分に合った生き方を模索することができました。 最後に「癒しは自分自身で始める」ということ。外部のサポートも大切ですが、まずは自分の心にゆっくり時間をかけて寄り添うことです。趣味や自然散策、瞑想など自分が心地よいと感じる時間を積極的に作ることで、内面の豊かさが育まれます。 毒親育ちという環境の辛さはなかなか人には言いづらいものですが、こうした心の旅は決して一人の戦いではありません。コメントで体験や思いを共有しあうことで、共感と支えあいが生まれ、自己理解をより深められると思います。このプロセスは少しずつ過去の影響を乗り越え、より自分らしい人生を築く助けになるはずです。

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