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Words to give to people who noticed that they were raised by poisonous parents

"Hello, I'm Sayako, a psychological counselor.

Today, I would like to give you the words I want to give to you who realized that you may have been raised by a poisonous parent. I think that realizing it is a brave step in itself. "

"Have you ever felt an emotion that's stuck somewhere in your heart?

However, having such thoughts may hinder your growth. So, if you change your perspective a little, you may gain new awareness.

5 Words to Send to People Who Realized That You Might Have Raised a Poisonous Parent

1. * * "Try to see your parents as a human being" * *

Parents are also people who need love and support. Knowing the background and story behind their actions and words can change the way you see yourself.

2. * * "Don't justify your feelings" * *

"I often wonder if it's okay to worry about this, but what you feel is all important emotions. Don't deny your feelings and accept them!"

3. * * "Develop self-esteem by yourself" * *

"It is important to take care of yourself, not just the evaluation from others. To do that, start by praising yourself. Let's be aware of small successes every day."

You can t change the past, but you can choose the future.

You can feel the influence of the past, but it doesn t define who you are now. Think about what you can choose for the future. Move forward with a new approach!

5. * * "Healing begins with yourself" * *

Support for others is important, but start the healing process on your own. Spending time loving yourself will enrich your inner self.

"I hope these words lighten your heart even a little. You have the power to overcome the past, so take care of yourself with peace of mind!"

If you find this reel useful, save it!

Please share your experiences and thoughts in the comments. If you want to deepen your self-understanding, please follow me and let's continue our journey together! ✨ "

Poisoned Parents Psychological Counseling Heart Health Self-affirmation Get over the past

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