A person that loves you will not talk down to you
Emotional abuse in my opinion is very hard to catch immediately because sometimes you start to question yourself am I overreacting? Am I doing too much am I not good enough? Why can’t I never get this one thing right and sometimes it feels like well I guess I did something wrong so I deserve this, or maybe you will even feel like they only do this. Sometimes they only talk bad to me. Talk down to me call me names sometimes, but they have all these other things that I like and sometimes you may want to justify and say nobody’s perfect, but to be honest your person will not call you out of your name your person will not talk down to you. Your person will not tell you. You’re not good enough. Your person will not tell you that no one will ever love you. Your person will not tell you that you can’t find anybody better than me and a good person doesn’t need to say out loud. I’m a good person because the actions speak for itself. You are good enough and if somebody isn’t loving you right that doesn’t mean that nobody will love you right.
By the way, these are notes for myself, but I’m sharing them out loud in case if there is somebody else going through the same thing #mydiary #vulnerabilityisstrength #emotional #emotionalabuse #embracevulnerability
Emotional abuse can often be subtle, making it difficult to recognize at first. Those affected may question their feelings and self-worth, leading to a cycle of self-blame. It's essential to understand that no one deserves to be insulted or put down in a relationship. Key signs of emotional abuse include constant criticism, intimidation, or undermining of one's thoughts and feelings. Recognizing these signs is crucial for maintaining mental health and personal dignity. If you or someone you know is in a situation where emotional abuse is present, it's important to seek help and support. Resources such as counselors or support groups can provide guidance and assistance in escaping toxic relationships. Remember, everyone deserves a partner who uplifts and supports them, reinforcing the idea that you are worth it! Additionally, embracing vulnerability can be a strength in confronting emotional abuse. Sharing stories and seeking validation from others can empower those affected to reclaim their self-worth. Documenting experiences, whether through journaling or speaking in forums, can offer relief and guidance. Connecting with others who have faced similar challenges can help break the cycle of isolation often experienced by victims of emotional abuse.
Amen🥰I’m proud of you. What God is going to bring you through your past do not define your future.