Am I divorced? Am I pregnant? I wasn’t ready to share this at the time . But this is why I’ve been quiet.

So many people been messaging me… asking am I pregnant .. or is my relationship with my husband is bad because we had a baby … & some people just really checking on me. I needed to pick a time when I was ready to share my story. I had to make sure my daughter, husband, sons, and family mental was right and most importantly mine. I choose to fight most of my battle in peace with God and My Close Family becuase people on the internet can be cruel. This journey hasn’t been easy. God is always good !❤️😘. & I had to share with my supporters cause some of yall have not stop dm me literally and yall check on me more than family and friends & yall didn’t know what was going on that’s real love and part of the reason I decided to share. Also, I have a okay amount of followers and need to get to my girls doesn’t matter if you’re young please go get you a pcp. You’re not too young g you’re not too old. I love you guys always and forever.

I’m not done with chemo but god got me.

Muah kisses.

Sn: please stop getting mad at people for not showing up to everything or if they can’t show up for you when they’ve always came through some people be going through things seriously.

I can’t wait to ring the bell with yall 🛎️🛎️🔔

Love Sade & Family

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... Read moreOpening up about a personal battle with cancer is never easy, especially when faced with public curiosity and pressure. I’ve learned that prioritizing mental health and creating a support system with close family and faith is vital during such trying times. It’s normal for people to have questions or misunderstandings, but protecting your peace should always come first. From experience, chemo can be physically and emotionally draining, but leaning on spiritual strength can provide incredible comfort and resilience. The journey isn't just about the illness itself; it involves caring for your loved ones' mental wellbeing too, as they cope alongside you. If you're reading this and hesitating to visit a primary care provider (PCP), please take this as a gentle nudge — you're never too young or too old to prioritize your health. Early health checks can be lifesaving, particularly for women. Prevention and timely diagnosis are key. Also, it’s important to remember that everyone is fighting unseen battles. Sometimes people are unable to show up or support in ways we expect, and that’s okay. Compassion and patience go a long way in nurturing relationships both online and offline. Most importantly, celebrate every milestone, no matter how small. Ringing the bell after chemo is more than a ritual; it symbolizes hope, endurance, and the collective support of community and faith. Keep fighting in peace and remember that you're never alone in your journey.

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