Check list 9 items. Green flag men to choose as life partners.💚💚💚

☑️ 1. Actually speaking and doing. Not good at but promising.

For example, say that you will pick up and try to make an appointment. If you are really busy, you will hurry to tell us not to wait. Tell us what to handle in the house, do without waiting for you every time. The important thing is not to perfect everything, but responsibility and consistency.

☑️ 2. No matter how quarreling does not destroy our value.

Notice when the comments don't match, can he say, "We don't think the same, can we find a way out together?" Instead of insulting, irony, or digging into the past to hurt each other? If the mood is hot, can he take a break and talk back? A suitable partner doesn't have to be angry, but he has to manage his anger without hurting us.

☑️ 3. Responsible for money and life.

You don't have to be rich, but you have to talk about your income, debts, savings, and burdens that you have, for example, before you get married, expose your debts, plan your expenses together, and agree who's responsible for what you're not married, so we just know they have a big debt or expect us to pay everything instead.

☑️ 4. Be so honest that we don't have to live as detectives.

He clearly expresses that there are lovers, sets boundaries with people who flirt, and does not secretly form excessive relationships with others. If there is a misleading matter, it is ready to explain honestly, without using the word "overthinking" to dismiss our feelings. Good trust is due to honesty, not to force us to check the phone all the time.

☑️ 5. Sincerely glad of our achievements.

If we get a promotion, a salary, or a new opportunity, they should be pleased with us, not irony that they are now good, not trying to devalue our success, and not forcing us to stop following our dreams for fear that we will be better than them. A good partner should be one who helps grow up, not one smaller person to make the other feel superior.

☑️ 6. Take care of each other on days when we are sick or exhausted.

For example, when we are sick, they help us buy medicine, take doctors when necessary, or lighten our domestic work, when we are stressed, they listen without hastily judging us that we are too weak. Of course, they do not need to know everything, but they should be willing to learn what kind of help we need, and we should take care of them the same way.

☑️ 7. Dare to talk about the future with a plan, not just with sweet words.

If talking about marriage, they are ready to talk about the budget, home, children or no children, the division of household work, the care of parents, and serious financial goals such as how much money is collected per month, who is responsible for what expenses, and if there are work problems to deal with, not all answers are needed from today, but they must be ready to plan and adjust together.

☑️ 8. Sorry is and actually changes behavior.

When making us sad, he doesn't just say "sorry and what else to do," but tries to understand what the problem is, for example, if he defaults often, he adjusts the way he schedules. If he talks hard, he practices to communicate better. Meaningful apologies must be followed by attempts to correct, not repeated mistakes, and then uses apologies to allow us to stay.

☑️ 9. Live as yourself without fear of love disappearing.

We can say that we disagree, reject certain things, have friends, have personal time, and have our own dreams, without being manipulated or made to feel guilty every time we do not indulge him, we do not have to be perfect all the time to be loved, and when there is a problem, we can talk to each other without fear of intimidation or harm.

Summarize from the perspective of the person who is choosing a partner: Don't just look at what they put us on a smooth day. See how they deal with conflicts, responsibilities, and changes in life. Because marriage is not just a sweet day, but a lot of money, work, family, and problems to solve together.

Green Flag Men are not all perfect men, but people who are ready to take responsibility for their own actions, honor us, and consistently build good relationships together. 💚

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