Mama advice needed!!

How do I tell the people that I love that have hurt me that I don’t want them to be around my family and my child this person has been in and out of my life and whatever I chose I feel like it’s gonna hurt anyways this person has shown me that their addiction is more important to have than rebuilding our relationship I’m just stuck on what to do😔😭

2024/12/30 Edited to

... Read moreSetting boundaries with loved ones, especially those battling addiction, can be extremely challenging. It’s crucial to prioritize not only your emotional well-being but also that of your family and children. When a relationship becomes toxic due to recurring patterns of hurt and addiction, having open, honest conversations is essential. Consider beginning with a calm and clear dialogue. Express your feelings without placing blame, using "I" statements to emphasize your emotions. For instance, you might say, "I feel uncomfortable when this person is around because their actions affect my family’s well-being." This approach can help convey your concerns without igniting defensiveness in others. Another critical aspect is understanding that it's okay to prioritize your child’s safety and emotional health. Children often absorb the tension from adults, and it can lead to long-term issues. You might explore support groups or therapy to gather strategies on navigating these conversations. Online forums, such as "6irls Talk," can offer support and inspiration from those who have faced similar dilemmas. Remember, setting boundaries isn’t about pushing away those you love; rather, it’s about creating space to protect your family while hoping for the best for others struggling with their issues. The path may not be easy, but it’s necessary for a healthier future.

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