Giving with a pure heart✨

While the two men were talking, the second man was reluctant to decide to help others.

The first man recounted that ✨ one day there was a millionaire sitting reading the newspaper, ✨ he saw the world full of misery, ✨ this millionaire, ✨ said, "I have money, I can help."

So he donated all his money to the foundation, but it wasn't enough.

One day a millionaire saw another article in a newspaper, and 10 people die every day because of a lack of transplanted organs.

A millionaire is stupid to think that just giving money is enough and it's over, so he goes to the doctor and says, "Doctor, I want to donate a kidney."

The doctor did the surgery, it was successful, and then he should have felt good, but not because people still suffer.

So the millionaire went back to the doctor and said, "Doctor, this time I want everything."

The doctor asked, "What does everything mean?"

The millionaire says, "This time I want to donate my liver, but not just my liver, I want to donate my heart, but not just my heart, I want to donate my cornea, but not just my cornea.

The doctor said, "You can donate a kidney.

But the rich man, who couldn't stand it, knew that people were suffering and that he could help, so he gave him the only thing left of his life, so he killed himself.

The second man, who was listening to the first man tell this story, said, "Does it work? Does it stop suffering?"

The first man said, "You live in this world. What do you think?"

The second man said, "Well, so he gave up his life for nothing? What are you going to convey?"

The first man replied, "Only fools think they can solve all the world's problems."

The second man immediately replied, "Yes, but you have to try, okay? Maybe there's a way to try and be useless."

From this conversation, the second man knows the answer in his heart that he wants to help others, and he will do it without hesitation. It may be useless to himself, but it can help a lot of others.

# Fargo # Netflix # ep5🍿🎬# Thoughts from the movie

Helping people without hope is giving with a pure heart, such as volunteering, donating, or helping a little to make others and themselves happy without expecting a reward.

Doing this creates peace of mind, stimulates the hormone good (oxytocin), reduces stress (cortisol), and creates psychokinesis, but must not self-press, recognize rejection when inconvenient, so that the rescue is sustainable and does not create a burden.

Key principles in aid

Give willingly: help because you want to help, not because you expect him to repay.

Know the Boundaries: Do not help yourself until you get into trouble, because it will cause trouble and may cause us distress.

Do It As Soon As You Can: Things Made Simple and Not in Trouble Are Good Start

Something to watch out for.

Avoid "secretly hoping": Expecting returns (even small) impairs prestige, and can lead to disappointment.

Don't be reluctant: Rejecting when inconvenient is not wrong, because it is also self-healing.