Are my feelings valid?

Ok guys if you saw my last post then great! If not, that’s ok.

Just a quick refresher… I’ve been talking to this guy since the end of November. We’ve been good friends but feelings are there.

Anyways fast forward to today..

I was ordering food off of his phone and someone has messaged him on snap. I tried to swipe it away but instead it opened it. Well the girl that messagedc the message said “Can you video us on Sunday?” And I automatically had a feeling that I didn’t like. I knew what that meant. Well I got upset and then 30ish minutes later I brought it up. And I asked what she meant. And he responds with “she wants to hook up and the plan was made for Sunday but I was going to make up an excuse. I did the same thing last tuesday”

So here’s where I’m at. I know we’re both single and we can do what we want. I’m not necessarily mad. He didn’t technically do anything wrong. But if he gets jealous about me having guy friends and we’re doing adult things and he says he cares and likes me. I think I have a right to be upset that he’s making plans with another girl to go hook up..

I have deep strong feelings for this guy and this shi HURTSSS. Just to know he’s talking to other girls like that. What else is he doing behind my back?

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2024/8/31 Edited to

... Read moreIn today's dating landscape, navigating feelings can often feel overwhelming. It's common to experience feelings of jealousy or insecurity, especially when someone you care about is interacting with others. Understanding that both partners are single can sometimes blur the lines of what’s acceptable, leading to internal conflicts. If you find yourself feeling hurt when your partner is making plans with others, it's essential to address these feelings openly. Communication is key in any relationship; discussing how such actions affect your feelings can help in reaching mutual understanding. Exploring concepts of emotional validation is vital. Recognize that sharing feelings with your partner — even if they may not agree — can foster a healthier dialogue in the relationship. Moreover, consider seeking external advice from friends or online communities. Participating in discussions can provide new perspectives and help you feel less isolated in your experiences. It's also beneficial to set boundaries that both partners are comfortable with to avoid misunderstandings in the future. Remember, every relationship is unique; what works for one partnership may not necessarily apply to another. Ultimately, feeling validated in your emotions is crucial. Whether it's seeking advice, talking to friends, or having open dialogues with your partner, addressing feelings directly not only strengthens your bond but also empowers each partner to express themselves freely.

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