IN YOUR 20 'S

⭐️Overall rating: 5/5

👍Pros: If you have been following the Ellis Family during their Facebook video days, this book is truly authentic to who they are as a couple. From their style of prose and various sentence structure, I can literally hear them talking to me. With Facebook you only get to glimmer of all the life scenarios they share with us, and this book is a total deep dive into all the aspects of their life they don’t (or at least didn’t) share on their various platforms.

Most of their content now is exclusive as you have to get through paywalls to access them, even though they do still post short videos of Facebook from time to time, so this book was a nice throwback to the lives I was used to seeing from them way back when.

Even though they don’t want to be “couple goals” their relationship and family dynamic is definitely one I think people in relationships, want to be in relationships, or for people who have/want to have families should consider.

🤔Cons: Obviously the book couldn’t be too long but I wished they dived a little bit more into some topics they didn’t have enough book room for. However this is a MINOR con, they dove deep into everything I really needed them to and for that I am appreciative.

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2024/1/18 Edited to

... Read moreReading books that reflect real-life experiences can be both enlightening and relatable, especially for those navigating their 20s. 'In Your 20s' by Khadeen and Devale Ellis provides just that, giving readers a blended narrative of their journey in relationships and parenthood. The Ellis Family gained popularity through social media, where their candid moments struck a chord with audiences. Their transition from spontaneous Facebook videos to a well-crafted book highlights the evolution of their storytelling. Fans appreciate how the prose maintains a conversational tone, making it feel like a heartfelt chat over coffee. As young adults face various challenges—career choices, relationships, and personal growth—books like these serve as a source of inspiration. Readers can find solace in shared experiences and learn from the lessons outlined in the Ellis's journey. They emphasize the importance of vulnerability, communication, and the joys of family life, making them relatable to both singles and couples. Moreover, the book's insights on maintaining a relationship amidst the chaos of life resonate deeply with many. Although some readers may desire a more extensive exploration of certain topics, the depth provided is substantial for creating meaningful discussions. Ultimately, 'In Your 20s' serves as a reminder that navigating this transformative decade is a shared experience, and literature can bridge the gap between individual journeys. Readers are encouraged to embrace their unique paths while appreciating the wisdom of others who have traversed similar terrains.

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Ursla Unã

I actually have this book myself, I’m still getting into it; but so far so good 🥰

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Another great one ❤️🥰🍋

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