I’ve always been active and involved in sports.

Working out is what kept me sane during graduate school.

My morning routine includes waking up before my kids and work and getting my workout in.

But it wasn’t until about a year ago that I really shifted my focus to lifting heavy. Not just lifting weights, I’ve been doing that for years, but actually having goals regarding increasing strength on my squat, deadlift, chest press, etc.

The shift to focusing on adding weight to the barbell each week (in addition to running again) has shifted my mindset about exercise and benefitted my mental health in ways I never realized before.

Also, I have to give a shout out to @Kelly Matthews and @Ladder | Fitness App for keeping me on track each week.

Gym fit: @Comfrt

#Exercise #Weightlifting #ExerciseAndMentalHealth #StressManagement #LadderApp

5/22 Edited to

... Read moreAs someone who has always considered exercise a vital part of life, I can relate deeply to the mindset shift described here. It’s common to start workouts aiming purely for appearance changes, but over time, focusing on measurable strength goals like increasing squat or deadlift numbers can dramatically change how you view fitness. From personal experience, tracking strength progress instills a sense of accomplishment and purpose that goes beyond just physical looks—it empowers mental resilience. The weekly challenge of adding weight to the barbell provides tangible evidence of improvement, which keeps motivation high during tiring or stressful days. Incorporating running alongside weightlifting adds variety and cardiovascular benefits, supporting overall mental wellness. Apps like Ladder can be hugely helpful for accountability; having a community or coaching feature makes it easier to stay consistent. Additionally, waking up early to exercise before family and work demands start is a strategy I’ve found to boost energy and mental clarity throughout the day. This routine sets a tone of commitment and self-care that reverberates into other life areas. It’s important also to acknowledge the psychological benefits of strength training. Shifting focus from appearance to functional strength can reduce anxiety linked to body image. It encourages celebrating what the body can do instead of how it looks, fostering a healthier self-esteem. Overall, combining disciplined weight training, mindful goal setting, and supportive tools can transform not only your fitness journey but also your mental health. This approach is especially powerful for those juggling multiple roles, like parenting and careers, who need that consistent mental boost and stress relief through exercise.

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