Why did I get a zero if I was in the hospital?

I got hospitalized for a serious health issue and had to stay in the ER for three full days. I wasn’t at home sick. I wasn’t skipping class. I was in an actual hospital bed, with an IV in my arm, getting treatment. I could barely even check my phone. But when I could, I made sure to email my professor.

I sent them everything. My discharge paper, the doctor’s note, even a picture just to show I wasn’t lying. I thought I was being responsible. I thought at least they’d understand.

But when I checked my grade this week, I saw I got a zero for that week’s participation. Like… what? I reached out thinking maybe it was a mistake. You know what they replied?

“No participation means no credit. It’s in the syllabus.”

That’s it. No “Are you okay?” No “Let me know if you need help.” Just that. Like my health literally didn’t matter at all. It made me feel invisible. Like I’m just a number in a gradebook.

And the worst part is, this isn’t even the first time something like this happened. College professors talk about mental health and self-care like they care, but when real life happens — when students actually need help — they turn cold.

I’m not even asking for special treatment. I just want basic understanding. I was sick. I did the right thing. And I still got punished.

Has anyone else had a professor act like this? What did you do? I feel stuck and honestly, it’s just so unfair.

#AskLemon8 #Letschat #CollegeStruggles #StudentLifeInTheUS #HospitalizedAndStillFailed

2025/5/18 Edited to

... Read moreNavigating the challenges of academia while dealing with health issues can be incredibly frustrating. Many students find themselves in situations where their health conditions affect their ability to participate in class. This article highlights an important concern—how do educational institutions respond to students who are genuinely ill? In situations where students provide proof of hospitalization, like discharge papers or doctor's notes, the expectation is that understanding and compassion will prevail. However, the reality can often be very different. Dismissive responses from professors can leave students feeling undervalued and unseen, as though their struggles and efforts to communicate their circumstances are disregarded. Moreover, it’s crucial for educational institutions to establish clearer policies regarding attendance and participation, especially for cases involving medical emergencies. While syllabi often outline strict participation requirements, academic support systems should accommodate students facing genuine health crises. Students often juggle various responsibilities, from coursework to internships, all while prioritizing their health. Instances of being penalized despite taking responsible steps to inform faculty can be disheartening. This raises broader questions about mental health awareness in educational settings. Are universities truly supportive of their students' wellness? As students share their stories and struggles, it's vital to create platforms for dialogue that can lead to systematic changes. Encouraging open communication and providing avenues for seeking help can bridge the gap between student needs and academic expectations. What steps can be taken to advocate for better treatment of students in similar situations? It's essential for students to unite and express their experiences to foster an educational environment that values health alongside academic performance.

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Talk to your dean. Medical emergencies trump all that Syllabus talk.

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I had a stillborn son in college and I got this exact same treatment from all the professors except for my yoga instructor. my yoga instructor was the only kind one. the others gave me zeros and took off points for late work. one even told me "that's just the body's way of cleansing itself" 🥺

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