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the gap between who you think you are and who you’re called to be

Self-awareness isn’t just seeing yourself clearly —

it’s having the courage to reframe what you see.

When God starts showing you the gap between who you think you are and who you’re called to be,

that’s not rejection — that’s refinement. 💛

The Power of the Reframe is about closing that gap with grace, growth, and truth.

📘 Available now on Amazon.

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#ThePowerOfTheReframe #FaithOverFeelings #ReframeYourMind #TheReframeCollective

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