Let me be honest…

Once you become a mom, most times, you began to lose yourself. Physically, mentally, and sometimes even emotionally. And when you’re a FTM - it can be so stressful trying to find a routine. I became a SAHM and i found myself always going to Costco & Target, that really was my source of getting out of the house. and then i realized i wanted to get out of the house and do something (not just for my baby) but also for myself! take make me feel like ME again.

i’m going to be SO TRANSPARENT!!! after having my baby, i felt like i didn’t even look the same. and i was really getting into a place where i was unhappy about myself. the way i looked. i became so lazy. i wanted to go to the gym but i moved to a whole other state with no family members. just me and my husband (and our dog lol). so if i wanted to go to the gym who would watch her? my husband works crazy hours and hardly has a day off.

i decided to walk every single day. at least 2 miles or more! and i’ve seen such a DRASTIC change in my health, energy, and my weight! i found the time to take myself and my girl out to get some sunlight, go to the park, and mama gets to feel good about it ✨🤍

moral of the story (and i’m gonna be bold here): if you’re not happy with yourself, YOU need to find time to make yourself feel like you again! As moms, we get so caught up with our babies that we definitely lose ourselves. ITS OKAY TO DO SOME STUFF FOR YOURSELF! Grab that shirt that you loved at the mall, buy the lipstick that looks great on you, go for a run, get ready for nothing, whatever the case may be. mama life can be hectic - trust me i get it! Do what will help you! and FIND the time to do what makes you happy!

#momhacks #lemon8challenge #mamasoflemon8 #momsoflemon8 #parentsoflemon8 #babyessentials #firsttimemom #babynecessities #lemon8creator #lemon8mom

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2024/3/17 Edited to

... Read moreMotherhood is an incredible journey, but it often comes with challenges that can lead moms to feel like they’ve lost their sense of self. The struggles of a first-time mom (FTM) can be overwhelming, especially when adjusting to new routines. Prioritizing self-care is crucial—finding time to enjoy activities that recharge you, like walking or visiting the park, can significantly impact your mental and physical health. Many moms share similar experiences, where simple acts of care for oneself lead to profound changes in energy levels, mood, and overall well-being. It's essential to remember that taking care of yourself is not selfish; it's vital for your happiness and your child's development. Engaging in hobbies, getting some fresh air, or simply treating yourself to things that make you feel good can revitalize your spirit. Many online communities offer support and tips, encouraging moms to embrace a balance between nurturing their children and themselves. As discussions grow in forums like #momhacks and #firsttimemom, it becomes clear that prioritizing personal happiness enhances not just your life but also the lives of those around you. Embrace the moments that make you feel like *you* again and remember, every small step counts in your self-rediscovery!

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