I need help
Okay so I find men attractive but the idea of dating one or being with a man is a big no for me I like girls I want to date and marry a girl. But it’s been so hard talking to women it feels like women don’t like me and idk how to talk to them or where to meet them and it’s frustrating I’m feeling lonely and I want a partner to share my life with… so out of frustration I started going on dating apps and started talking to some men there trying to ignore the side of me that doesn’t want to be with a man… but I can’t do it I can’t lie to myself and be with someone I won’t be able to love… it’s not fair to me or them and I feel like and awful person because I led some of them on and idk how to deal with it or how to explain it to them without being a complete ass… which will be hard. I just need your guys’ opinion and support 😭😭😭
Dating can be complex, especially when identity and attraction feel at odds. Many in the LGBTQ+ community face similar challenges when searching for love. For those who identify as lesbian but find themselves drawn to men, it’s essential to understand and accept one’s own emotions. The search for a partner can feel isolating, particularly when societal pressures make you feel as though your attractions aren't a choice. Building connections with like-minded individuals can be a key step in this journey. Visibility and representation matter; finding spaces where you feel understood is vital. Resources for LGBTQ+ dating include apps designed specifically for the community, finding meetups for gay women, and engaging in forums dedicated to LGBTQ+ discussions. Engaging with the lesbian community not only offers support but also opens doors to genuine connections. Don't hesitate to seek advice and share your story—many are willing to listen and provide insight. Embrace your identity at your own pace, and remember, every heart's journey is unique. Let's support each other in navigating these feelings and charting a course towards love and acceptance.
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