Navy life
This post is dedicated and to answer questions about being a single mom in the military. Here’s a few tips and tricks on how I manage life:
1. Befriend other moms! ( this will help you in the long run if you were to join the navy and be deployed mothers stick together and I am grateful for them )
2. Never bring work stress home. ( earlier when I had my child I would do so and it cause a toxic household. I learned to decompress in the car before entering my house )
3. Get out! ( yes being a single parent sucks but it’ll suck more if you’re entire life is just focus on being a parent and not actually taking care of yourself )
4. Plan ahead! ( deployments can happen, I’ve been on two and never has my child ever had to question where I was or actually she didn’t care lol she was busy living her best life until I came back, of course I brought gifts home )
5. It’s stability ( in this economy the military definitely is a buffer and I’ve never had to worry about not getting a paycheck )
I had my daughter while I was serving and quite honestly I’m glad I did but even if you’re thinking of doing it I say do it. The military gets a bad rep but honestly half the stuff you see isn’t what we actually do we still have normal lives we still go home everyday and we still have fun! #militarygirl #deployment #militarylifestyle #deploymentlife #NAVY
Being a single parent in the military, especially in the Navy, can be challenging but also rewarding. Community support plays a crucial role; connecting with fellow military moms can help alleviate some of the stressors of deployment. Engaging with others facing similar challenges fosters a sense of togetherness that makes the journey easier. It's also vital to prioritize self-care. Make time for yourself to recharge, whether that’s enjoying a hobby or simply having peace and quiet. Planning ahead for deployments can greatly minimize the disruptions to your family's routine. Creating a stability plan for your children ensures they feel secure during your absence. Remember, the military provides many benefits, including a reliable paycheck, which can help in managing finances during tough economic times. Embrace this unique lifestyle and see it as an opportunity for both personal growth and cherished family moments. You’re not alone in this journey; thousands of military families are navigating these waters together.
Is your daughter able to live on base with you?