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Life in debt is exhausting.

💔 life in debt is exhausting.

There is no encouragement.

No friends. Can't tell anyone. Facing anyone, no one wants to date.

🔥 listen, it's really heavy...

It's not just about money, it's about feeling "lonely" at the same time. 😞

❌ debt, it makes people tired, both heart and body.

The more no one to vent,

It's even more like having to carry everything alone.

😍 this kind of situation "out."

But we need to solve it, not the same kind of fight.

Now the obvious thing is that 3 things are overlapping:

🌱 debt burden.

🌱 accumulated stress.

🌱 feeling defenseless.

If released together, it will get heavier and heavier.

💚 let's start from a small point first.

(Don't be good, don't be complete)

1️⃣ Stop blaming yourself. Having debt is a bad person.

It's "situation," not "identity."

2️⃣ make it clear (even if you don't want to see it) write it out.

How much is the total debt?

How much is the minimum monthly payment?

When it's on paper, it starts to "control."

More than in the head.

3️⃣ find a place to rely without knowing each other. If you don't want to tell people close to you, there are options, such as:

Mental Health Hotline 1323 (Talking, No Identity Needed)

Or talk to us here. You can type it.

4️⃣ Don't try to be good alone. People who carry it long.

Often broken here

Getting help = not losing.

It is a shortcut to survive.

🧡💚 anyone who's in a situation like this, how to fix it? Let's tell you about it, so that other people who are facing it can use it as a guide.

# Out of debt # Life is indebted # Exit people with debt # No debt # Debt

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