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Kind people are very distressed.

"Kind people are often very distressed.

Because of the kindness of not knowing him. "

There are three types of kind people that we always find.

1. Be kind, have the heart to help people mentally.

A bodhisattva full of noble kindness.

2. Be kind and thoughtful as a cost.

Pity and tears can't stand.

And know self-fit giving.

Not too harsh.

3. Kind, highly enthusiastic expression.

To be ignorant of the north and south.

Don't know, tired, don't know their strength.

Until subjected to time, wealth, physical strength.

You know what kind people are?

At the final destination.

Will be full of terrible suffering.

Too uncomfortable to blow to one side.

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The answer is kind people in the third way.

That we call People Pleasure.

In fact, these people really appease others.

Well, because "wait for" the response.

Back there.

As if waiting for the rain from the sky

To fall to shalom

Wait, wait. There's not a drop.

Kind people. This type of People Pleasure.

Often used by malicious groups.

Who only hope to use kind people as tools.

To seek benefit for themselves.

Without thinking about the heart, the feeling.

Of a kind person like People Pleasure.

These malicious people are the Dark Triad.

An extremely dangerous hysterical rally.

But by ignorance, not being careful.

As well as providing full support

Of this third kind person.

So he accidentally understood that he had done well

With those people and get charity.

If comparing easily clearly

Is that a kind person secures his house, his car.

And then there's a warrant for us to pay.

Because the borrower we're supporting won't pay.

So the hardship falls to the people

While the borrower floats and eats comfortably.

A kind man who is very distressed.

Because he was a tool of malicious intent.

It's no different from the butcher.

The same is true.

So we came back to understand

Always clear that

Be a good person. Don't suffer if you're a fool.

And not fall into his tools.

2025/11/13 Edited to

... Read moreในชีวิตจริง คนใจดีมักได้รับการชื่นชม แต่บางครั้งใจดีเกินไปโดยไม่ได้ระวังตัว อาจนำมาซึ่งความทุกข์แสนสาหัสอย่างไม่รู้ตัว โดยเฉพาะกลุ่มคนใจดีที่แสดงความเอื้อเฟื้อแบบไม่มีขอบเขต หรือ People Pleaser ซึ่งมักทุ่มเทให้กับคนอื่นมากเกินไป เพื่อหวังได้รับการตอบสนองหรือความรักกลับคืนมา ซึ่งไม่ใช่เรื่องง่ายเสมอไป กลุ่มคนใจดีเหล่านี้มักตกเป็นเป้าหมายของกลุ่มคนที่เรียกว่า Dark Triad ซึ่งหมายถึงกลุ่มคนที่มีลักษณะบุคลิกภาพเชิงลบ ทั้งโรคจิตที่มุ่งเอาเปรียบและใช้เครื่องมือคนอื่นเพื่อประโยชน์ส่วนตนอย่างเห็นแก่ตัว โดยพวกเขาจะหลอกลวงและใช้ประโยชน์จากความเมตตาของคนใจดีอย่างจงใจ โดยไม่ได้คำนึงถึงความรู้สึกหรือผลกระทบที่เกิดขึ้นกับคนใจดีเลย เหมือนกับคนที่รับหน้าที่ค้ำประกันทรัพย์สินของผู้อื่น แต่เมื่อผู้นั้นผิดนัดชำระหนี้ กลายเป็นว่าผู้ค้ำต้องแบกรับความลำบากเพียงคนเดียว โดยเฉพาะอย่างยิ่งการที่คนใจดีประเภทนี้ไม่ตระหนักถึงเล่ห์เหลี่ยมของคนรอบตัวยิ่งทำให้ถูกเอาเปรียบอย่างหนักและกลายเป็นทุกข์สาหัส ดังนั้น การเป็นคนดีจึงไม่จำเป็นต้องหมกมุ่นให้คนอื่นพึงพอใจเสมอไป ความรู้เท่าทันและการตั้งขอบเขตที่ชัดเจนคือกุญแจสำคัญที่จะช่วยให้คนใจดีรักษาตัวเองจากความทุกข์และการถูกใช้ประโยชน์ได้อย่างมีประสิทธิภาพ การเรียนรู้วิธีปฏิเสธอย่างสุภาพแต่หนักแน่นและประเมินคนรอบข้างอย่างรอบคอบ จะช่วยไม่ให้ตกเป็นเครื่องมือของคนเจตนาร้ายเหล่านี้ นอกจากนี้ ผู้ที่ประสบปัญหาความทุกข์จากการเป็นคนใจดียังสามารถหาคำปรึกษาจากผู้เชี่ยวชาญทางจิตวิทยาหรือกลุ่มสนับสนุน เพื่อช่วยฝึกฝนทักษะการปฏิเสธและสร้างความเข้มแข็งทางใจ เพื่อให้สามารถเป็นคนใจดีแบบสมดุล ที่ช่วยเหลือผู้อื่นโดยไม่ทำร้ายตัวเอง ทั้งนี้ คนใจดีที่รู้เท่าทันกับพฤติกรรมของ Dark Triad และตั้งขอบเขตได้ จะมีความสุขและความสงบใจมากกว่าการหลงผิดคิดว่าการให้ทั้งหมดคือความดีเสมอไป

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