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Sharing experiences. Lessons from bad love.

🥲 to have good love once, why is it so difficult??

Both having infidelity, secretly having sex with other people, secretly talking to other people, which we are not totally okay to end because we do not want to live with this paranoia.

Found an assault, almost got punched in the middle of the classroom just because of a little quarrel, but good at that time, we were shocked, so lifted the foot to kick back first, so did not get punched, but secretly shocked, plus feeling bad, afraid that the next time we might really get hit

Being hurt by many hearts, both words that say all the time, not honor, sarcastic, sarcastic, strong talk all the time, quarreling, very tired to endure before allowing myself to come back to love myself for a long time

🥹, but once we come back to love ourselves, we can be ready to cut with those who come in and have these things a lot easier. Now we see that we love ourselves enough to choose good oranges for ourselves.

# Grow up and know that# lemon 8 diary # Love, relationships # Unfaithful boyfriend # Toxic relationship

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